Are you hurting right now?
Believe me, I’ve shed many tears over being dumped, ghosted, and led on. These things hurt!
If you’re suffering today, I’m sending you the biggest hugs and my heart truly goes out to you.
Here are some things you can do to learn everything possible from this experience so that you can minimize your chances of being in this situation again.
First, please treat yourself with compassion. Don’t add to your pain by being hard on yourself. Give yourself the same kindness that you’d give to your beloved daughter or niece.
Once you’ve done that, ask yourself these questions: What were the choices you made that resulted in the situation you’re in now? Did you choose to date a man that was unavailable? Were you hoping that something would change or improve if you continued to date him? Did you see a red flag that you ignored? Did you tolerate mistreatment and hope that things would somehow get better? Do you miss him or the idea of him?
Ask these questions from a place of curiosity and genuine desire to learn. No blaming yourself. Then answer them truthfully. When you do, you’ll learn so much about yourself and you’ll be much more likely to make better choices in the future.
Once you realize how your choices create the results you get, you’ll be in a much better position to create the life you want. To learn more, check out this video!
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