You can have love in your life!
It is possible. It is more than just possible, it is certain if you will do what it takes to create it. The problem is that most of us don’t believe we should have to create it, it should just show up. I’m going to challenge that belief. Why should it just show up? What else worth having has ever landed on your doorstep with no effort whatsoever and taken zero effort to maintain? Not your education, career, financial security, or excellent health and fitness. You worked for those things. You figured out what you needed to do in order to get the results you wanted and then you did those things. You can do that with love too. In this book, I will outline three keys to having love or anything else you want in life. It’s time to let go of the belief that love is the only thing in life that is supposed to happen by magic. If you decide exactly what you want, believe that you can have it and commit to achieving your desired outcome, you will be successful.
What do you really want? If Cupid himself or your own personal Fairy Godmother told you that you could have whatever you wanted, what would you ask for? What, exactly, is your goal? Do you want to meet a lot of new people, go on fun dates every weekend, find The One, or get married and build a life with someone? Be specific. This is your life and this is for you. Unabashedly want whatever it is that you want. You are here on this planet to attain it. Write it down here.
If I could have anything I wanted, I would:
When I achieve my goal, I will feel:
The five traits I absolutely must have in a partner are:
I want to be in a relationship because:
Do you believe that you can have love in your life? Everything in the world that has ever been created started out as an idea, every building, company, and material object right down to the clothes you are wearing. This is great news because it means that you get to decide what you will create. No one can keep the things you want from you, not your boss, your ex, your parents, or children, only you. You get to choose what you will believe, the thoughts and ideas that you will focus on. You can also work with your mind on a subconscious level in order to change the beliefs that may be holding you back. It is much easier to achieve something when you believe that it is possible. It is also easier when you surround yourself with people who believe it is possible and have attained the things that you want to have. They can help you to believe when you feel discouraged.
Things you can do to up-level your beliefs:
I bet you can think of a few more things you can do. Find what works best for you and start today. You can and will reach your goal. This is for you!
Once you decide and believe, it’s time to commit. Make a commitment to yourself today to create the life you want to have, to create the loving relationship that you have been dreaming of. Do not even think of backing off or giving up. It is possible and you can have it, you will insist upon it and not settle for anything less. Now is the time to put your stake in the ground and make a stand for what you want in life. You don’t have to settle for nights on the couch with the remote or booty calls with the bad boys who never want what you do. If you want more than what you have today, know that you can have it and commit to achieving it. Commit to making the investment in yourself, to doing whatever it takes to make it happen. You can and will achieve the life you dream of if you follow these steps and don’t give up.
The five things I can do differently are:
Pick one of these things and do it right now!
Chances are that you’ve hit a few bumps on the road to creating the life you want to have or you would have done it by now. We all need some support from time to time. This is where coaching can help. I can help you focus on your goal, support your belief in your dreams and help you find your way to making them come true. Waiting for something to happen has not worked yet. Everything else in your life has been created by you because you reached for it, worked for it, found a way. Elite athletes and business people work with coaches because they know it works. If you are ready to reach for the life you want, I’ve got your back. The time has come for you to create the life you’ve been dreaming of!
Thank you for taking the time to read this book. I hope that you enjoyed it and that you will commit to doing at least one thing differently going forward. It is my honor and privilege to support each of my clients in having the love they want. If you are single and don’t want to be, it’s time to do something differently. Take action today.
I created Renée Suzanne Coaching to help people create the lives they’ve always dreamed of. Together, we can uncover what lies between you and the loving relationship you’ve always desired. It is possible for you to have a great love in your life. You can have it. I can help.