This might sound crazy, but I bought my wedding dress 15 years before my actual wedding

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This might sound crazy, but I bought my wedding dress 15 years before my actual wedding

This might sound crazy, but I bought my wedding dress 15 years before my actual wedding.

I was going through an “act as if” phase.

Little did I know how long it would take or the adventures that awaited me.

Back in the early 2000’s, I was a stressed out single mom and my daughter worked at a bridal shop.

It was on my way home from work and I would often stop by to say hi to her.

I’m a girly girl and the allure of all those beautiful gowns was irresistible.

I’d never worn one before then.

I married my first husband in my 8th grade graduation dress as a teenager and that wedding was far short of fabulous.

So it was absolutely intoxicating to prance around a bridal shop in gorgeous wedding gowns after a tough day at the office before going home to the chaos that awaited me there as a single mom of 4.

Life didn’t offer me many escapes from my crushing responsibilities, but this was one of them.

When I tried on this gown, it was “The One”.

I got tears in my eyes and I had to have it.

Even though I hadn’t had a date in years and was nursing a huge crush on a guy at work who didn’t want anything to do with me.

A girl can dream.

So I plunked down my credit card and brought it home.

The years went by.

The kids grew up.

I moved a few times and it always came with me.

And then I was launching my business and lost my job.

The unemployment was running out and I was dead broke and terrified.

The bills were piling up and I was packing up my apartment to move in with my son.

I was purging everything except for my most prized possessions which amounted to a handful of items that I planned to store in my grandma’s basement.

I couldn’t believe that my life had come to this and I was absolutely devastated.

I pulled the dress out of the closet and wondered why I’d held onto it for so long.

It seemed laughable.

So I snapped a few pictures of it and put it on Craigslist.

I figured I could use a few bucks.

But no one bought it!

So it came to my son’s house with me.

And then I dragged it with me when I moved to my great aunt’s to be her live-in caregiver.

I felt increasingly silly each time I moved this dress, but I didn’t know what else to do with it.

It seemed more unlikely than ever that I’d find love at this point in my life.

Especially since I didn’t even have my own place or a “real job”.

But on New Year’s Day of 2017, my husband and I matched on Tinder.

We fell in love quickly and we knew we were right for each other, so that October, I finally got to be a bride!

I truly believe that the reason I was finally successful is because I never gave up, even though things looked terrible.

I always kept learning as much as I could about dating, showing up on Tinder and going on dates.

I worked with coaches, read books, journaled and tried new things.

It was 100% worth the effort I put in to walk down the aisle in that dress to marry the love of my life.

I’m so glad that no one bought it and I finally got to wear it after all.

I can teach you how to create these results for yourself.

No matter what your life looks like now or how many disappointments you’ve faced.

I’ve distilled the process I used into practical steps that are easy to implement.

I use everything I learned along the way to help women figure out how to get these results without spending 15 years spinning their wheels.

This is why I created my private coaching program.

It’s called COURTED; a 6-month coaching experience to help you attract a quality man who’s ready to commit and be invested in a loving relationship.

You’ll get my expert attention on every detail of your dating life, so that you can set yourself up to win.

Here’s what you can expect when we work together:

I’ll teach you how to write an amazing profile and communicate with men effectively so that you’ll know for sure which guys are worth spending time with.
You’ll only date men with real potential and it won’t take months to figure out where things are going.
He’ll ask YOU if you’re seeing anyone else and to take down your profile because he’ll want you all to himself.
And he won’t make you wait forever to seal the deal, you’ll know that your heart is safe with him and you can relax and enjoy being courted.

If you’d like to spend your summer dating quality men who want a future with you, you can apply for your complimentary call with me here.

We’ll find a time to chat about what’s happening in your dating life right now and what your specific goals are.

I’ll give you practical, actionable advice to help you reach those goals so that you can have the relationship you really want.

Then if it’s a good fit, I’ll invite you to join my coaching program and answer any questions you have. 

Whether or not we decide to work together, you’ll leave this call with a clear plan to move forward to find love instead of spinning your wheels.

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