safe sex

January 16, 2019

Having Emotionally Safe Sex

We hear so much about how to practice safe sex from a physical perspective, but how often have you heard about how to have emotionally safe sex? This is such an important topic and is largely ignored. It seems to me that women have been fed the idea that in order to be liberated we should date like men, act like men, and be very cavalier about our sexual experiences. I say B.S. I totally disagree with this and I think that kind of behavior is actually harmful for most women. If you’re a woman who’s able to date like a dude and it makes you happy, that’s amazing. For the many other women (myself included) that have a hard time being casual about a physical relationship, it’s okay to take your time and get to know a man before you get naked with him. It’s not only totally okay, […]