May 4, 2015

How to overcome rejection

I spent last weekend at The Ultimate Women’s Expo in Phoenix and it was fantastic! It was my first expo and I learned so much. You have to really put yourself out there and face some rejection if you want to be a love coach. You can’t hide at home behind your computer all the time and expect to touch people’s lives. I flew in from Chicago to spend two days talking to women (and a few men) about love. I rented a booth, gave a 25-minute talk and poured on the love. Most of those wonderful people loved me right back, but some didn’t. They walked right past and ignored me, even when I said hi. That’s ok though. I knew I had the best product in the room. Love! I was there to fulfill my mission and I did. How about you? Do you get discouraged and give […]
January 27, 2016

Do guys only want one thing?

Maybe you’ve had a few disappointments in dating. Perhaps you’ve given your heart or your body too soon and regretted it. Now, understandably, you’re on guard. It’s easy to think that men are only interested in sex if you’ve been let down a few times. If you think that guys are cold, calculating beasts who only want sex, read on. It’s important to know that men are different, not wrong. Most men really do want love and connection, and you have much more to offer the men of the world than your sexuality. Generally speaking, men view sex differently than women do. They are capable of having sex with women they barely know and don’t even like very much. They have an easier time separating the physical from the emotional. Men don’t have the ridiculous amounts of oxytocin circulating through their bloodstreams that makes most women feel insane if they […]
May 29, 2016

How to deal with rejection in dating

We all face rejection from time to time. Unfortunately, it’s nearly impossible to avoid in dating. Here’s what to do when it happens to you. What to do when rejection rears its ugly head
September 19, 2018

The Reason You’re Single

Could you be wrong about the reason you’re single? If you’ve been on your own for a long time, you probably have a lot of ideas about why you’re single. I know I did! Perhaps you think that men are shallow or intimidated by a smart, successful woman like you. Maybe you’re convinced that your size, age, or kids are keeping you alone. Ideas like this can keep you from putting yourself out there and making an attempt to find love. I’d like to challenge you to test them out and see if they’re true. Kind of like a dating science experiment if you will. Look at other women around you. Not everyone who is happily paired up is a size 2 or a supermodel. Many happily married women are just as brilliant and successful as you are. Take some time to study what other women who are in love and […]
October 17, 2018

Has Dating Made You Bitter?

Dating, and life in general, can deal some harsh blows. Pretty much everyone over the age of 20 has a right to be bitter! I know the kinds of things that can happen when you’re out there dating and it can be so heartbreaking! I’ve dealt with painful breakups, being ghosted, and long spells of first dates (and no dates). I’ve heard it all AND gone through much of it firsthand. Here’s the thing; being jaded and snarky doesn’t serve you and it’s definitely not any fun. Honestly, when’s the last time you saw a bitter person and thought, “Wow, I can’t wait to hang out with them.” Probably never. If you’d like to leave bitterness behind, take a look at the things that have caused you so much pain and ask yourself what belief is at the root of it. Do you believe that men only want one thing? […]