January 14, 2015

Upgrade your look – upgrade your life!

Are you pumped up and excited about beginning a new year? Are you motivated and ready to upgrade your life? Fantastic! Last time, I wrote about the importance of cultivating a growth mindset and being determined. Now I will cover specific things you can do to begin moving toward your goals. I’ll cover outer work in this newsletter and inner work in the next one. It’s time to step up to the plate and back that motivation up with consistent actions in order to get results. So let’s start with the outside work. Your outer appearance is the first thing everyone sees. The outside counts, a lot! It is your very own advertisement to other members of the human race, your first chance to show people who you are. If you would like to attract more dates, it helps to look good. If you know that your appearance could use […]
June 15, 2015

Your online dating profile matters

A lot of my clients complain that the men who respond to them online are just random guys looking for a hookup. Nothing special, not trying to court them or even bothering to write a decent email. When I ask what kind of profile they have posted they usually tell me it’s basic, generic, breezy. That can be a problem if you’re looking for quality. When you post an online dating profile that attempts to appeal to everyone and don’t make it unique, you blend in with everyone else on the site. That’s not what you want. So many people are online these days and you need to stand out if you want to get quality dates. Your profile and pictures are all you have going for you until you actually meet, so you need to make the most of them. Be serious about this and you’ll get better results. […]