October 12, 2016

How to finally stop dating the wrong people

Do you always end up dating the wrong people? Did you just break up with another narcissist or player? Are you hanging in there with someone you hope will change? Have you decided to take a break from dating because it’s been so painful and the same things keep happening in all of your relationships? I want you to find someone who’s wonderful for you and to have the loving relationship you deserve. That means not spending one more minute where you are, so let’s begin. The first step is to take responsibility for where you are in your life right now. If you’re in a situation that makes you miserable, get out as soon as possible. Finally, learn how to make better choices so that you never wind up in a bad situation again. Then you can finally move on to something better. This first point may sting a […]
October 17, 2018

Has Dating Made You Bitter?

Dating, and life in general, can deal some harsh blows. Pretty much everyone over the age of 20 has a right to be bitter! I know the kinds of things that can happen when you’re out there dating and it can be so heartbreaking! I’ve dealt with painful breakups, being ghosted, and long spells of first dates (and no dates). I’ve heard it all AND gone through much of it firsthand. Here’s the thing; being jaded and snarky doesn’t serve you and it’s definitely not any fun. Honestly, when’s the last time you saw a bitter person and thought, “Wow, I can’t wait to hang out with them.” Probably never. If you’d like to leave bitterness behind, take a look at the things that have caused you so much pain and ask yourself what belief is at the root of it. Do you believe that men only want one thing? […]