love life

January 30, 2019

Break the Pattern of Being Unavailable

Are you keeping yourself single by choosing to date an unavailable man? It’s very common to believe it’s the man who’s unavailable when really, its you! I know it seems wrong, like blaming the victim, but think about it this way: if you’re REALLY available for a relationship, why on earth would you consider dating an unavailable man ever? You wouldn’t! You’d be out of there the minute you knew he was unavailable, right? Yet I see so many women put up with unavailable men for months or even years and then blame the guy. I actually used to do this a lot, so no judgement here, just realize that it does happen and it’s up to you to change it. If you’re wondering if this applies to you, take a look at these 5 steps that make up the pattern: Step 1: You find a guy who: Won’t meet […]
September 4, 2019

Are You Too Busy to Bother With Men?

You’re busy. I get it. We all are. We want the best results in as little time as possible. I’m with you. No woman in her right mind wants to waste her time going on a bunch of bad dates or to spend months dating the wrong man. It’s not only a time suck, but it’s painful! Once you’ve been through this a few times, you may be ready to throw in the towel. But doing that won’t get you into a loving relationship. Want to know what will? Learning how to date effectively. Looking for men who possess qualities that actually matter in relationships. Presenting yourself in a way that is most likely to attract those kinds of men. Showing up with an open heart when you meet them. Being willing to invest your time in doing all of these things. To learn more, check out this video! Ready […]
September 11, 2019

Are You Trying to Stifle Your Heart’s Desire for Love?

Do you wish that you didn’t want to find someone? Are you trying to push down the pangs of loneliness with work, friends, or general badassery? Does it sometimes seem weak to you even to want a man to share your life with? You’re independent, brilliant and have everything you need. Isn’t love one of those fluffy things that is nice if you can get it? Definitely not a need. I sooo get it. I used to resent any implication that I might “need” a man. That was for weaklings and I was too strong for that nonsense. I didn’t need anyone. But I was wrong. I did need love and human connection. We all do. And it’s OK. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!
September 25, 2019

You Need a Good Mate, Not a Good Date

Are you great at dating? What makes someone a great date? Being smooth, saying the right things, having “game”? Those things come with practice, lots of practice. The more dates you go on, the higher your chances of being good at dating. Good relationship skills come from being in long term relationships, not from dating. You get better at things that you spend lots of time doing. So the guy who’s a great date may not necessarily have the best relationship skills. And the guy who’s a keeper in the relationship department may not be the best date. He may not know all the hot spots in town or dress to the nines. But he may know how to comfort you when you’re having a bad day, make up after a fight or not need to get his own way all the time. You get to decide what’s important to […]
November 6, 2019

Are You Like The Guy Who Won’t Ask For Directions?

Have you ever been in a car with someone who’s lost and refuses to ask for directions? I have. I’ve even been that person. It seems easier just to keep driving sometimes. You’ll probably figure it out, right? But eventually you may need to ask for help to get back on track. Consider taking this approach when it comes to dating. If you’ve been at it for years and it’s not working out the way you’d like, why not ask for help? It beats doing the same things over and over again for a few more years or giving up altogether. Dating really doesn’t have to be that hard. There are solutions that can help you get back on track. So, pull over and get those directions today. You’ll be so glad you did. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? […]