good mate

September 25, 2019

You Need a Good Mate, Not a Good Date

Are you great at dating? What makes someone a great date? Being smooth, saying the right things, having “game”? Those things come with practice, lots of practice. The more dates you go on, the higher your chances of being good at dating. Good relationship skills come from being in long term relationships, not from dating. You get better at things that you spend lots of time doing. So the guy who’s a great date may not necessarily have the best relationship skills. And the guy who’s a keeper in the relationship department may not be the best date. He may not know all the hot spots in town or dress to the nines. But he may know how to comfort you when you’re having a bad day, make up after a fight or not need to get his own way all the time. You get to decide what’s important to […]