July 31, 2019

Who Are You Asking for Advice?

Who do you turn to for advice? Some sources of advice will help you more than others. It’s tempting to commiserate with your single friends and co-workers, but unless they have the results you want and can help you get them, it may not be the best approach. Asking family members for guidance presents challenges as well. You may not be comfortable sharing everything about your dating life with your family members and they tend to see you differently than other people do. Sometimes family members can also trigger you. Friends and family members alike tend to shy away from telling you things you’d benefit from knowing, but might hurt your feelings. They love you and they probably don’t want to hurt you or make you mad. It really can help to get a more objective opinion from a coach or a therapist. In addition to being objective, your source […]