March 20, 2019

Coffee Date as a First Date

Do you like coffee dates? Honestly, I was never a coffee date kind of girl in my single days, but everyone’s different. If you like coffee and coffee dates, go for it! Just be sure that you like the reason you’re going on them. Is it because you actually prefer to meet for coffee or because you want a quick exit if it doesn’t work out?  If you’re using coffee dates as a quick low-investment way to screen your dates, getting on the phone before agreeing to meet is much easier and less time-consuming than meeting for coffee. If you decide to meet after your chat on the phone, you can do something a little more romantic that actually resembles a date, such as drinks after work,  a walk in the park, or even dinner if he suggests it. If you’re really hesitant to meet him for dinner, ask yourself […]
June 19, 2019

What if You Knew You’d Succeed?

When I was single, my coach asked me, “What would you do right now, if you knew that a year from today, you’d be exactly where you want to be?” This question really stuck with me. I still use it on myself when I’m feeling lost. So how about you? If you knew for sure that you’d be happily in love, married, wherever it is that you want to be, what would you do right now? How would you act? Would you show up differently in the world? To make this even more exciting, take out your pen and write it down. Keep it with you and read it often. How would feel waking up next to the man of your dreams? What would your dream life look? If you knew it was a done deal, would you chill out? Forgive your ex? Stop freaking out every time some guy […]