being single

February 20, 2019

It’s Okay to be Weird

Back in the day I used to host bible studies at my house. Many of the people who attended were couples. There was one couple that stood out to me. They were newlyweds, weren’t in the best of shape and dressed kind of funny. Ok, really funny. I often wondered how on earth they found each other, but they were really sweet and affectionate with each other which was super adorable. I used to look at them, as a single person trying to date and wonder what I was missing. I was “normal” compared to them, in good shape, younger, dressed better, but I wasn’t meeting anyone! Despite being the strange birds that they were, they were completely in love and were the exact right kind of strange for one another. It seemed like a miracle to me. I remember thinking about it a lot. As they say, there really […]
February 27, 2019

Dating When You’re Older

Do you think that dating is for the young and feel totally left out of the mix? I get it! For a variety of reasons, many of us end up single long past when we expected to be married. Despite your best efforts, you may end up single a little later in life but it’s not the end of the world. So many women date successfully when they’re older and even find their soulmates. I found mine on Tinder just over 2 years ago! Is it going to take a bit more work than when you were younger? Quite frankly, yes, but it’s worth it. You need to be willing to put yourself out there with online dating and making the first move by reaching out to someone you’re interested in and introducing yourself. If you’ve gone through a divorce, please don’t bring that baggage into your next relationship. Get […]
June 5, 2019

Are You Amazing Yet Single?

Yes, you’re amazing but are you still single? Unfortunately, being amazing doesn’t get you married (or even into a good relationship). Want to know what will? Learning how to date! I’m not kidding. Learning how to date effectively is essential if you want to get into a relationship. You need to develop skills in this area to find someone to have a relationship with. It also helps to become someone that the kind of person you want to be with would actually date. Makes sense, right? Being single doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with you. So many truly amazing people are single.  If you’ve been single for a long time, what you’ve been doing is not working. Be willing to leave your comfort zone and learn something new. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line and […]
October 9, 2019

Is Self Care Keeping You Single?

So many women get discouraged with dating and say they need to take a break. I understand completely! Dating can be brutal, especially if you’re just winging it and hoping for the best. But the “take a break” strategy is totally ineffective. Think about it, do you take a break from the gym and hope you’ll be in better shape in a few months? No! The mere passage of time does nothing to change the results you’re going to get. If you want a different result, you need to learn how to make it happen. So, what do you really want from dating? How will you use your time away from the dating scene to learn how to get what you want? What will you do differently next time? This is the ultimate self-care, because it’s having your own back instead of checking out on yourself. It’s hard, but it’s […]
November 6, 2019

Are You Like The Guy Who Won’t Ask For Directions?

Have you ever been in a car with someone who’s lost and refuses to ask for directions? I have. I’ve even been that person. It seems easier just to keep driving sometimes. You’ll probably figure it out, right? But eventually you may need to ask for help to get back on track. Consider taking this approach when it comes to dating. If you’ve been at it for years and it’s not working out the way you’d like, why not ask for help? It beats doing the same things over and over again for a few more years or giving up altogether. Dating really doesn’t have to be that hard. There are solutions that can help you get back on track. So, pull over and get those directions today. You’ll be so glad you did. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? […]