being in love

April 24, 2019

When He Upsets You

We all get upset with our significant other from time to time. It’s impossible to go through life with someone and be on the same page about absolutely everything, but it’s still tough when these things come up. So, what should you do about it? First, think about what he’s done. Are you taking something personally that isn’t about you? You’re absolutely entitled to have your feelings, but what are you making his behavior mean to you? Can you separate the action he took from your feelings about it? For example, if he was late and you feel that it was disrespectful to you, stop and think about what you’re making this event mean. Does it mean that he’s disrespectful? Does it mean that he doesn’t care about you? Does it have to mean that? Could it mean something else? Could it not mean anything? If he does something that […]
September 18, 2019

Do You Think He’s The Only Guy For You?

Is there a man in your life? Or sort of in your life, but not really? A guy who’s so amazing and perfect for you, but he doesn’t know it yet? If only he’d come to his senses and realize how amazing you are and how perfect you’d be together, then everything would be fine. So, you bide your time. You refuse to date other men. Or maybe you go on some dates, but your heart’s not in it because no one measures up to this guy. Can I get an “Amen”? I did this for YEARS. Needless to say, none of those guys turned out to be my husband. It’s tough to see this kind of dynamic for what it is, but I encourage you to do everything you can to break free of this. Your life, and the possibility of meeting a guy who’s really into you, are […]