advice on dating

February 6, 2019

Intimacy While Dating

I don’t need to tell you that men want sex. Physical intimacy is usually a part of a romantic relationship and we all like it that way! If you want more than that from a relationship, make sure you’ve discussed it before things go too far. Most men will want to make out first and ask questions later, if ever. Try to not find them wrong for feeling that way. This tendency is responsible for the existence of our species and it’s not likely to change anytime soon. Instead, learn to understand and work with it. You both have a right to feel as you do and want what you want. If you want a long term relationship, make sure you’re dealing with a man who shares that desire and discuss it openly. As you increase the physical closeness in your relationship, make sure that you’re also increasing the emotional […]
July 3, 2019

When You’re Not Attracted to The Guys Who Like You

Do you often find that the guys you like don’t want to date you but the guys you’re not attracted to won’t leave you alone? I’ve SO been there and it can be incredibly frustrating. This kind of dynamic can become a very insidious way of keeping yourself single for a long time. You may think that this is the way it always works out for you or that you’re unlucky in love, but I want you to pretend, just for a moment, that this is simply a habit that you can change. Because, it is. Grab a pen and and write about the last three guys you were attracted to who didn’t return your interest. Take your time and write down everything you remember about them. What did they have in common with each other? Next, do the same thing with the last three men who were attracted to […]
December 25, 2019

Happy Holidays From Me to You

Happy Christmas! I hope you have a lovely holiday and an amazing New Year! If 2019 wasn’t the best year for your love life, I promise it can turn around so much faster than you think. 3 years ago, right before Christmas, I was dumped. Via text. It was so painful. I remember taking his Christmas present back to Macy’s and trying not to cry at the register. Less than a month later I was on my first date with the man who became my husband. Finding the love of your life can happen in an instant. It really doesn’t have to take that long or be that hard. I can help. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!
January 1, 2020

How You Can Find Your Man in 2020

New Year’s Day is finally here! We’re in a brand spanking new decade!! If you want to make this the year you find the love of your life, what will you do differently? Will you go on Tinder, Match, or OK Cupid? Will you learn how to write an amazing profile? Will you stop dating the guys who are your “type” but treat you poorly? Waiting, wishing and hoping isn’t going to cut it. Neither is waiting on the Universe, God or Amazon to deliver your dreams to you. It’s time to get to work and help the fates along a bit. It really can be done and it doesn’t have to be that hard. But you really must be willing to take some action. I can help. Dating is a skill that can be learned and when you do it effectively, you’ll get much better results. Just like anything […]
January 15, 2020

You Get to Decide What’s Meant to be

I used to think that finding love just wasn’t in the cards for me. I was single for well over a decade and had a knack for chasing guys who didn’t want me, settling for crumbs, and never being interested in the men who were interested in me. I was a total dating disaster. For a time, I actually thought I was cursed by some higher being who enjoyed watching me suffer. But the truth is, I was in charge of the whole thing. I just didn’t realize it. How about you? Do you think that someone else is in charge of your love life or that happiness in love is not in the cards for you? I can assure you that love is possible for you, but you must be willing to do things differently than you’re doing them now in order to have it. I believe that the […]