I was crying my eyes out over a breakup in my cute little It Girl apartment when I decided to buy this ring.
I was ready to give up on love.
I was always giving up on love, but it never quite stuck.
In the end I just couldn’t bring myself to do it.
So instead of giving up I decided to go all in.
To seriously commit myself to finding a wonderful man and getting married no matter what.
Even though I was in my mid-40s and had raised four kids alone.
And was probably too old to believe in true love or marriage or to have the beautiful wedding I’d always wanted.
I decided that none of that mattered as much as the fact that I wanted to share my life with someone who loved me.
So I dried my tears and marched myself over to Tiffany’s and bought myself this ring.
I put on the wedding gown I’d bought several years before, went into my tiny bathroom and married myself in the bathroom mirror.
I promised myself that I would create the life I really wanted no matter what.
And then I made some big changes.
I learned how to take responsibility for creating the life I wanted instead of just hoping that things would work out.
I worked with coaches and learned everything I could about dating to create a true connection with someone instead of just hoping for the best.
It took time, money and work, but I knew that this was important to me so I did it.
This is what self love really is, not just taking bubble baths and buying yourself flowers.
Self love is having the courage to stand your ground and get what you want, even when it’s uncomfortable or inconvenient.
Because you are worth it and your dreams matter.
In the end, I did achieve my dream and The Hubbs took that ring off my finger the day we married.
I still have it as a reminder of the promises I made to myself.
If you want to find a wonderful man to share your life with, I’m here to tell you that it’s 100% possible.
I can teach any woman how to position herself in the dating world to attract a quality, relationship-minded man.
No matter what her life looks like now or how many disappointments she’s faced.
I’ve distilled the process I used into practical steps that are easy to implement.
I use everything I learned along the way to help women figure out how to get these results without spending years spinning their wheels.
This is why I created my private coaching program.
It’s called COURTED; a 6-month coaching experience to help you attract a quality man who is ready to commit and to be invested in a loving relationship.
You’ll get my expert attention on every detail of your dating life, so that you can set yourself up to win.
Here’s what you can expect when we work together:
* I’ll teach you how to write an amazing profile and communicate with men effectively so that you’ll know for sure which guys are worth spending time with.
* You’ll only date men with real potential and it won’t take months to figure out where things are going.
* He’ll ask YOU if you’re seeing anyone else and to take down your profile because he’ll want you all to himself.
* And he won’t make you wait forever to seal the deal, you’ll know that your heart is safe with him and you can relax and enjoy being courted.
If you’d like to spend your summer dating quality men who want a future with you click here to apply for a complimentary call with me.
We’ll find a time to chat about what’s happening in your dating life right now and what your specific goals are.
I’ll give you practical, actionable advice to help you reach those goals so that you can have the relationship you really want.
Then if it’s a good fit, I’ll invite you to join my coaching program and answer any questions you have.
Whether or not we decide to work together, you’ll leave this call with a clear plan to move forward to find love instead of spinning your wheels.