Has the man you’re dating told you that he doesn’t want to get married, or that he might someday, but he’s not sure when?
He loves you and doesn’t want to lose you, but just isn’t ready for a long-term commitment?
I’ve been there and this is tough.
I wanted to be married and share my life with a wonderful man and spent years trying to figure out how to do it.
I finally got into a decent relationship that seemed promising.
About 6 months in, he told me he wasn’t sure he wanted to be married, even though that’s not what he said in the beginning.
I thought that the solution was to wait him out, be patient and maybe give him a little space.
Surely he’d come around because he wouldn’t want to lose what we had.
But ultimately, the relationship deteriorated.
Because I failed to put myself and my dreams first.
We all admire people who have dreams and love themselves enough to go for them, to stand for what they really want.
And we lose respect for people who don’t respect themselves.
This is what self love really is, not flowers or bubble baths.
It’s loving yourself enough to go to the wall for your dreams and not back down.
Even when it hurts.
I eventually ended that relationship and I’ve never regretted it.
I’m happily married today because I finally learned to make an unwavering commitment to myself and the life I wanted.
If you want a man to commit to you, please be willing to commit to yourself first.
It may seem counterintuitive, but it truly is the most effective way to have the relationship you really want.
If you’re ready to stop waiting for someone else to be ready and start living the life of your dreams, we need to chat.
I can show you the fastest way to get from where you are now to where you really want to be.
It doesn’t have to take years.
One hour with me can put your feet on the path to a happy marriage to a man who adores you.
Apply for your dating plan makeover call with me today and let’s do this.
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