September 7, 2016

Are you craving closure?

He’s stopped all contact. You’ve been checking your phone for any word from him for days, maybe even weeks, and the silence is deafening. You want to reach out to him, text him, call him, maybe even go to his place and confront him. How dare he do this to you? You thought you really had something, he told you he cared for you, was he just leading you on? Will you ever hear from him again? Before you reach for the phone, or worse, your car keys, consider this: Your ex can’t give you closure, and even if he could, it wouldn’t help you feel better, true closure is moving on. First of all, closure isn’t something another person can give you. As painful as it is, you need to work your way through this and feel your feelings, all of them. The pain, the rage, the missing him. […]