There are men in the world who won’t do things the way you’d like. Lots of them. Some of them are even cruel and disrespectful and don’t care what you want. I can’t change them and neither can you. But you can have standards for how you are treated and who you will let into your life. And you also decide who gets to stay. There are plenty of men who are loving, kind and respectful. Choose them. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!
How we love to romanticize useless, painful and unproductive relationship dynamics in our culture! And there are so many to choose from. Today I’m picking on one that cost me many years of my life to indulge in, “The one that got away”. This concept is absolute mind poison. If you’re spending time thinking about a man who’s not in your life right now, I want you to stop immediately. Do whatever you need to do in order to stop. Work with a coach, get a therapist, hire an exorcist. It will be more than worth it. There is nothing more expensive than the precious years of your life and the space in your heart. Use the resources you have available to you to create the life you want to live now. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me […]
You’ve probably had the experience of having a guy you didn’t care about think that you were awesome. And wished that the guys you really liked felt that way. Maybe you thought this happened because you didn’t care. But that’s unlikely. What’s more apt to be true is that you were confident and acted more like yourself around the guy you didn’t care about and he admired you for that. So the next time you consider trying to act like you don’t care, even when you do, try being yourself instead. And letting the chips fall where they may. It’s ok if you can’t be confident, you can still be courageously you. Love yourself enough to be yourself and let the world see you. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary […]
It’s not your imagination. It really can be a bit more challenging to find a guy who’s relationship material. The most common reasons why are: 1) Relationship-minded men aren’t single as often and 2) When they do become single, they find someone to settle down with much faster. So statistically, fewer of them are available at any given time. This of course, is beyond your control. However, if you’ve been single for any length of time, I can pretty much guarantee you that you’ve run across these men. And you’ve either ignored them or friend-zoned them. You must stop doing this immediately if you want a relationship! Relationship-minded men can be an acquired taste. It takes awhile to get used to the good stuff, but you must expend the effort. Because in the end, doing so is far easier than turning a man who’s not interested in a relationship […]
Do you think that true love isn’t meant to be for you because it hasn’t happened yet? Can you see that this belief is not logical? Think of a country you haven’t visited. You know that you could purchase an airline ticket and go right now. You wouldn’t say that it’s “not meant to be” just because you’ve never been there. There are so many things that you haven’t done yet that you could do anytime you wanted to. What if finding love was one of those things? Just consider that this might be true. If you’ve tried to find love without success, it still doesn’t mean that it’s not meant to be. It simply means that you haven’t succeeded yet. You haven’t yet learned how to create the conditions that make finding love inevitable. But you could do that anytime. There are so many resources available to help […]