Are you seeing someone you really like, but you’re not quite sure where things are going?

Is there a lack of plans, talk of the future, or anything very substantial at all?

You’re starting to have feelings for him and you hope he feels the same way.

If he asked you to be his girlfriend, you’d be thrilled.

Sometimes you think he’s getting closer and then you don’t hear from him for days.

You know it shouldn’t bother you because there’s no label, but it hurts.

You may be in a “situationship”.

A situationship is, well, undefined.

This is different from “friends with benefits” which is defined, even if it’s not what you really want.

If you’re longing for a lasting connection that will lead to forever love, you don’t have time for situationships.

They suck your time and energy and hurt your heart, leaving you disappointed and jaded.

The #1 way to avoid getting into a situationship is to be open and honest about your relationship goals.

Write a profile that makes them clear and find out what your dates are looking for early on.

Refuse to date anyone who clearly indicates that he’s not looking for anything serious.

If he’s vague about what his plans are, consider yourself warned.

Learning to communicate effectively and stand for your relationship goals will help you get into the kind of relationship you really want.

It can feel scary at first, but is well worth the effort.

There are ways to position yourself in the dating world to clearly indicate that you are in this for the creation of something.

You want to be courted and find lasting love.

These are good and honorable things, even in 2021.

There are men who want these things too, and the fastest way to find them is to be honest about what you’re looking for and pass on the situationships.

To learn more, check out this video!

Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!

I absolutely lose my mind when I see beautiful, brilliant, successful women tie themselves in knots over guys who are worthless.


Men who are inconsiderate, have nothing to offer and aren’t in love with them.


All the while they’re ignoring good men who would do anything for them.


I honestly just want to scream sometimes.


If you’ve been single for months or years on end and you are sad or depressed about some guy, I want you to consider that this may very well apply to you.


I totally get it because of course, I’ve done this myself (so many times), but if you really want love in your life this needs to change.


Now.


You don’t need years of healing or therapy to find true love, you just need to change your habit of choosing men like this.


Because you’re choosing them, even if you don’t think you are.


Once you’re able to see this clearly you can simply make another choice.


This is why coaching is so amazing.


If I hadn’t worked with a coach I know I’d still be doing this stuff.

I’m so glad I was able to figure out how I was getting in my own way so that I could be happily married today.


If you’ve been struggling with something for a while, don’t wait for it to get better on its own.


Find a mentor who has the thing you want and can help you.

To learn more, check out this video!

Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!

I know that you really want true love with a man who gets you and is ready to share his life with you.


This is very important to you, but you wonder if it’s even possible at this stage of the game.


So you try just dating and seeing how it goes. 

Maybe it’ll work out one of these days and at least you’ll have some companionship in the meantime.


But you know deep inside that it isn’t enough. 

It feels increasingly empty the longer you try and you know that you want more.


You’re not at all convinced that the guys do though.


At least not the ones you’re meeting.


I’ve SO been there!

I used to wonder where all the good men were hiding and got fed up with dating on a regular basis.


It seemed hopeless at times.


But here’s the deal: Having standards, embracing them fully and communicating them honestly is a game changer.


Once you really get this and go all in on your own dreams, things will shift and you’ll start attracting better men.

This is because people tend to treat us the way we treat ourselves.


If you dismiss yourself and your dreams, others will too.


But when you have your own back and go for what you want without apology, people respect that and even find it inspiring.


You can actually inspire men to step up and dream of love with you.

You have to go first though.


I can teach any woman how to raise her standards AND find the love of her life.


No matter what her life looks like now or how many disappointments she’s faced.


I’ve distilled the process I used into practical steps that are easy to implement.

This is why I created my private coaching program.


It’s called COURTED; a 6-month coaching experience to help you attract a quality man who’s ready to commit and be invested in a loving relationship.


You’ll get my expert attention on every detail of your dating life, so that you can set yourself up to win.


Here’s what you can expect when we work together:

If you’d like to spend your summer dating quality men who want a future with you, just click here to apply for your complimentary call with me.


We’ll find a time to chat about what’s happening in your dating life right now and what your specific goals are.


I’ll give you practical, actionable advice to help you reach those goals so that you can have the relationship you really want.


Then if it’s a good fit, I’ll invite you to join my coaching program and answer any questions you have. 


Whether or not we decide to work together, you’ll leave this call with a clear plan to move forward to find love instead of spinning your wheels.

Sometimes I get some pushback when I recommend that women (nicely) turn down requests for last-minute dates.

It seems like playing games, maybe a bit princess-y and what’s the harm in just saying yes?

Especially if you weren’t doing anything anyway and you’d really like to see him.

But saying yes is winning the battle and losing the war.

Here’s why:

Accepting a last minute date rewards him for not bothering to plan dates with you.

You’re literally training him to do this.

Especially if it’s a first date.

People treat you the way you teach them to treat you.

You’re teaching him not to respect your time. 

You’re not a priority to a man who does this and you want to be a priority.

He’ll see you as an option.

Someone he can hit up for a date when he doesn’t have anything better to do. 

This doesn’t position you as a high-value woman.

And you are a high-value woman.

The kind of woman a guy who has his act together and has something to offer wants to date isn’t sitting around bored waiting for a guy to order her up like a pizza.

She’s amazing and has plenty of things to do.

Even if it’s taking care of herself, reading a book, or taking a bath.

And finally, it’s sooooo nice to go on a date that’s been planned in advance by a man who’s excited about you.

Why would you ever want to deprive yourself of this experience?

If a man reaches out for a last-minute date, consider politely declining and telling him you’re available in the next few days.

You’d love to meet him then.

If he likes you, he’ll have no trouble scheduling a date in advance with you.

It’s really not that hard and most men really are capable of reading calendars and making plans.

To learn more, check out this video!

Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!

You’re SO ready to meet a great guy, but you hate online dating and apps. 


It would be so amazing to just go out and meet someone in real life.


Is that even a thing anymore??


I understand exactly what that feels like.

I spent years trying to date online and found it to be increasingly frustrating.


Can you relate?


The problem is that most of us don’t educate ourselves on how to date properly for the results we want to experience.


We just throw up a profile that sounds like everyone else’s along with a few selfies and hope for the best.


This will get you the haphazard results that send most women running for the hills.

It’s not your fault.


We’re not taught how to do this.


If you want to find a lasting connection with a man who’s serious about you, it’s crucial to understand how to present yourself as a high value woman.

You need to create an online dating presence that will set you up for success.


Then you’ll be able to have a relationship that progresses toward love and commitment from the moment he clicks on your profile.


It takes time and effort to learn how to do this, but it’s not rocket science and anyone can do it.


You deserve to have true love and you absolutely can have it.


I can help you learn how to present yourself in the best possible way in the dating world so that you can start dating better men immediately.

From there, you can build the kind of lasting relationship you really want.


I’ve distilled the process I used into practical steps that are easy to implement.


I use everything I learned to help you figure out how to get these results without spending years spinning your wheels.


This is why I created my private coaching program.


It’s called COURTED; a 6-month coaching experience to help you attract a quality man who’s ready to commit and be invested in a loving relationship.


You’ll get my expert attention on every detail of your dating life, so that you can set yourself up to win.


Here’s what you can expect when we work together:

If you’d like to spend your summer dating quality men who want a future with you, click here to apply for your complimentary call with me.


We’ll find a time to chat about what’s happening in your dating life right now and what your specific goals are.

I’ll give you practical, actionable advice to help you reach those goals so that you can have the relationship you really want.


Then if it’s a good fit, I’ll invite you to join my coaching program and answer any questions you have. 

Whether or not we decide to work together, you’ll leave this call with a clear plan to move forward to find love instead of spinning your wheels.