Are you ready to find the love of your life? It’s a simple question. So simple that you may not have thought about it lately, if ever. You may believe that you’re ready without questioning it at all. Why wouldn’t you be?
Whatever you don’t have in your life right now that you actually want lies outside of your comfort zone. That’s the reason you don’t have it. You may think you want it, tell your friends you want it, complain about how hard it is to get whatever it is, but the fact is that part of you doesn’t want it. Something about having this thing, or doing what it takes to get it makes you uncomfortable.
Wanting something doesn’t mean that you’re ready for it. Most of us want things we don’t have. It’s part of the human condition. It’s what keeps our economy going. It’s what keeps us getting out of bed and going to work every day. Having a desire to achieve something is a wonderful thing.
Many of us work hard to get things that are supposed to make us happy, but they don’t. It’s common to accept the values of our social circle or our culture without question. We don’t take the time to stop and think about what we really want and why.
Today, I’d like to invite you to do so.
We all have 24 hours in each day to focus on what’s important to us. Every human being, from the president to the barista who makes your coffee every morning is subject to this limitation. We must choose our priorities or life will simply happen to us by default.
When you decide what’s most important to you and arrange your schedule so that you have time to focus on achieving your goals, you’ll have a much better chance of living a satisfying life.
If you want to find love, ask yourself what’s stopping you from being 100% ready. It’s time to be completely honest with yourself. If you’re not ready for love right now, that’s perfectly fine, but at least you’ll know instead of having an enduring frustration over something you’re not ready to make room for.
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