I used to think that once I improved myself enough, I’d somehow graduate to the level of relationship-readiness required to be able to have a boyfriend.
This is hilarious now that I look back, but that’s really how I felt.
I was constantly trying to iron out all my flaws and not mess things up with whomever I was dating, or wanting to date.
But when you look around, you’ll see that there are plenty of people who are imperfect, even dysfunctional, who have partners.
So give yourself a break.
There’s nothing to fix or attain.
Relationships and people are not so fragile that one wrong move will send everything straight down the tubes.
There is so much room for error with these things.
If your search for a partner is taking longer than you’d like, it’s not because you have some kind of fatal flaw.
Most likely, it’s because you’re not dating in a way that makes the results you want inevitable.
This is something that you can learn how to do and it is actually possible.
Unlike absolute perfection, which is not.
To learn more, check out this video!
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