We all get upset with our significant other from time to time. It’s impossible to go through life with someone and be on the same page about absolutely everything, but it’s still tough when these things come up.
So, what should you do about it?
First, think about what he’s done. Are you taking something personally that isn’t about you? You’re absolutely entitled to have your feelings, but what are you making his behavior mean to you? Can you separate the action he took from your feelings about it?
For example, if he was late and you feel that it was disrespectful to you, stop and think about what you’re making this event mean. Does it mean that he’s disrespectful? Does it mean that he doesn’t care about you? Does it have to mean that? Could it mean something else? Could it not mean anything?
If he does something that you’re not willing to tolerate in a relationship, then of course, it’s okay to move on, but it still does not have to mean anything about you. It could just be that he does not want to have the same kind of relationship that you want to have. Some things are negotiable and some things are not, but they never have to mean anything about you.
If your man is constantly upsetting you, it may be that you’re not compatible, but first, look at what you’re making it mean. To learn more, check out this video!
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