tips on relationships

July 26, 2018

Tips to Help You Find Love

Do you know what it really takes to find love? Many women think it’s up to fate, but there are steps you can take that will help you find love. Here are some mistakes that women make all the time: Only talking to your girlfriends at social events. You can’t expect to have a man approach you if you’re bringing your girlfriends along and only chatting with them. Being glued to your phone. You aren’t approachable if you’re constantly on your phone. Put your phone down, exercise your friendliness muscle, and smile at the people around you – this will definitely help you find love. Not putting yourself out there. With all the online services and dating apps we have literally at our fingertips, it’s easier than ever to create a profile and put yourself out there. Dating apps are a fantastic way to find love. (I found my wonderful husband on Tinder!) If you’re feeling discouraged about your chances […]
July 26, 2018

Are You Hoping He’ll Change?

Are you trying to change the man you’re with? I’ve done it and you probably have too. You may have been on the other side of this as well, feeling like your man was trying to change you. If so, you know it doesn’t feel good. Here’s the deal; if you’re with someone you want to change, you either need to love and accept him as he is or move on to someone else whom you can accept. Nobody wants to be presented with a huge list of things they need to fix or change about themselves or to be treated as a “work in progress”. Everyone wants to be loved as they are. You are no exception; neither am I. It’s not fair to constantly fuss at a man to change, even if it’s “for his own good”. He doesn’t want to change and neither do you. Please love him […]
July 26, 2018

Tips to Help You Heal

Are you working on healing something? I hear so much talk lately about people who are still healing from past relationships or old childhood wounds. I understand that excruciatingly painful things happen to people. Believe me, I’ve had more than a full helping of total nightmare in my life. I understand the need to heal, but letting it take over your life will not be helpful. Healing is a process that eventually comes to an end. You don’t want to be stuck in healing mode forever because you have a limited amount of time on this planet. Don’t you want to spend it having an amazing life? Do you really want to hide out in the name of healing while everyone else, including your ex, is going on happily about their business? I think not! Get out there and date again. Don’t use healing as an excuse. If you just went through a […]
July 31, 2018

Understanding What You Want

When it comes to relationships, do you know what you’re looking for? This is a question I often ask the women I work with and I usually get the same vague responses back; “I just want to meet someone nice”… “I’ll know him when I see him”… “I’ll have that certain feeling”, etc. The truth is, if you want to have a great relationship, you need to be proactive. You need to know what you want. If you’ve been following your gut, your instinct, hormones, or having butterflies all this time, it probably hasn’t been working for you. It’s time for you to consider a different approach. If you haven’t thought about what you want in a relationship, I highly suggest you grab a pen and paper and write it down. Ask yourself: What qualities do I want in a man? How do I want him to make me feel? What kind […]
September 5, 2018

The Most Important Quality to Look for in a Man

When you’re looking for a man to date, what qualities turn your head? An impressive job title? The right zip code? If you’re seeking a long-term relationship there’s one quality you’d do well to insist on. If he doesn’t have it, nothing else will matter. Does he have to be funny or crazy handsome? No. What he needs to have is… CHARACTER. Character is the most important quality to consider when you’re looking for a man. Unfortunately, we don’t stay young and gorgeous forever and money can come and go. This quality will outlast everything else. If you’ve ever worked with me, you know that I help you decide on 5 must have qualities to seek in the men you date and they need to be character-based. Don’t go after that huge list of superficial qualities. Go for a man you can count on who keeps his word and you’ll […]