Tinder

September 14, 2016

Want to try Tinder?

Have you considered trying Tinder, but fear that it’s only for hookups? So was I until a girlfriend made me do it and it actually landed me a wonderful man! Here are some great reasons to try it and some tips for you if you decide to start swiping. First, Tinder is great because you won’t get messages from guys unless you choose them. This is HUGE! No wading through tons of emails from men you aren’t interested in or who are totally unsuitable. Also, your matches will be geographically desirable for the most part, as long as you don’t use the app while you’re travelling. If dating someone who lives near you is important to you, it’s easy enough to ask where they live. Don’t be worried about hookups. Sure, some guys want casual relationships, but they’re not confined to Tinder. The best way to avoid being asked to […]
August 2, 2017

I’d do it all again to find love

After more than a decade as a single mom, many false starts, and a few absolute disasters, I finally married the love of my life in May. I met him on Tinder, mere weeks after being dumped via text by a man I really liked. Yes, it even happens to love coaches my friends! If you’re thinking of giving up on love, please don’t. Things can turn around for you very quickly. At any given time, you could be one first date away from meeting the person you will spend the rest of your life with. If you will commit to reaching your goal, be willing to leave your comfort zone, and get some support, you can have someone special in your life sooner than you think. It really doesn’t have to take that long. First, determine that you WILL find love. It’s up to you. You’re not going to […]
July 26, 2018

Tips to Help You Find Love

Do you know what it really takes to find love? Many women think it’s up to fate, but there are steps you can take that will help you find love. Here are some mistakes that women make all the time: Only talking to your girlfriends at social events. You can’t expect to have a man approach you if you’re bringing your girlfriends along and only chatting with them. Being glued to your phone. You aren’t approachable if you’re constantly on your phone. Put your phone down, exercise your friendliness muscle, and smile at the people around you – this will definitely help you find love. Not putting yourself out there. With all the online services and dating apps we have literally at our fingertips, it’s easier than ever to create a profile and put yourself out there. Dating apps are a fantastic way to find love. (I found my wonderful husband on Tinder!) If you’re feeling discouraged about your chances […]
September 5, 2018

The Most Important Quality to Look for in a Man

When you’re looking for a man to date, what qualities turn your head? An impressive job title? The right zip code? If you’re seeking a long-term relationship there’s one quality you’d do well to insist on. If he doesn’t have it, nothing else will matter. Does he have to be funny or crazy handsome? No. What he needs to have is… CHARACTER. Character is the most important quality to consider when you’re looking for a man. Unfortunately, we don’t stay young and gorgeous forever and money can come and go. This quality will outlast everything else. If you’ve ever worked with me, you know that I help you decide on 5 must have qualities to seek in the men you date and they need to be character-based. Don’t go after that huge list of superficial qualities. Go for a man you can count on who keeps his word and you’ll […]
September 12, 2018

Are You Waiting to Meet the Right Person?

Do you feel like you’re not meeting the right guys? Have you found yourself saying, “I just want to meet the right person” or asking your friends to introduce you to someone? Here’s the deal; it’s not about the men you’re meeting or not meeting. Unless you live in a very remote area or never leave your house, you’re walking past people everyday. Men are everywhere! You could easily be walking past dozens of wonderful men and not even know it because you’re in a mindset of waiting to meet the “right person”. You’re not going to meet the man of your dreams unless you shift something. This is true because it’s never about the people you’re meeting, it’s about how you’re showing up in the world. If you’d like to learn more about why you haven’t met the right person yet and what you can do about it, check […]