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March 20, 2019

Coffee Date as a First Date

Do you like coffee dates? Honestly, I was never a coffee date kind of girl in my single days, but everyone’s different. If you like coffee and coffee dates, go for it! Just be sure that you like the reason you’re going on them. Is it because you actually prefer to meet for coffee or because you want a quick exit if it doesn’t work out?  If you’re using coffee dates as a quick low-investment way to screen your dates, getting on the phone before agreeing to meet is much easier and less time-consuming than meeting for coffee. If you decide to meet after your chat on the phone, you can do something a little more romantic that actually resembles a date, such as drinks after work,  a walk in the park, or even dinner if he suggests it. If you’re really hesitant to meet him for dinner, ask yourself […]
March 27, 2019

Stop Texting and Meet Him Already

Do you often match with a new guy online or an app and then text each other for weeks on end? If so, you need to stop texting and meet him already! If you’re serious about getting into a real relationship, it pays to use your time and emotional energy wisely. You simply can’t afford to invest weeks (or longer) in back and forth texting with men you’re not meeting. Instead, learn how to turn the text messages into phone conversations. Once you’ve spoken on the phone once or twice, you can schedule a time to meet in person in the reasonably near future. I promise that using this one tip will help you avoid so many undesirable situations, such as ending up with guys who are; married, dating tons of other women, catfishing, too busy with their jobs, kids, travel, video games, whatever, to have a real relationship with […]