self love

October 3, 2018

Are You Bad at Relationships?

Are you bad at relationships? I definitely used to be. In fact, I believe I was the QUEEN of being bad at relationships. For many years I couldn’t get a relationship to last longer than a month – if that. It was so discouraging and I thought it was a lost cause. There I was, Miss “Bad at relationships”. But being bad at relationships isn’t something that just happens to you. You weren’t born bad at relationships. You weren’t born knowing how to do very much of anything at all.  So if you’re bad at relationships, you learned how to be bad at them. The good news is that you can now learn how to be good at them. There are so many resources available to you so that you can learn to be great at relationships. You can take classes, work with a coach, read books, or watch YouTube […]
January 23, 2019

Love Yourself

I can see you rolling your eyes! I used to get so annoyed about this topic when I was single. I always believed that I loved myself. I bought myself nice clothes, got my hair and nails done, and went on nice trips. I thought I had this nailed. I didn’t have a real understanding of what it meant to love myself though. I had nice clothes but I put up with the most ridiculous treatment from the men I dated. I worked long hours and couldn’t set appropriate boundaries to save my life. I never understood that being able to love myself would bring me closer to what I wanted most in life, true love. I finally learned how to love myself though, and I’m convinced that doing so is essential if you want to have a good relationship. These suggestions can help you have a much better relationship […]