self care

January 23, 2019

Love Yourself

I can see you rolling your eyes! I used to get so annoyed about this topic when I was single. I always believed that I loved myself. I bought myself nice clothes, got my hair and nails done, and went on nice trips. I thought I had this nailed. I didn’t have a real understanding of what it meant to love myself though. I had nice clothes but I put up with the most ridiculous treatment from the men I dated. I worked long hours and couldn’t set appropriate boundaries to save my life. I never understood that being able to love myself would bring me closer to what I wanted most in life, true love. I finally learned how to love myself though, and I’m convinced that doing so is essential if you want to have a good relationship. These suggestions can help you have a much better relationship […]
May 29, 2019

Dating Can Prepare You for a Relationship

Have you been single for an extended period of time? Want to know what can be beneficial to your personal growth and future relationships? Dating. Yes, dating can be one of the best tools for personal growth while you’re single. Why? Because it prepares you to be in a relationship by the very act of putting yourself out there and meeting new people. Dating also helps you to look into your own heart and to be honest with yourself and others about what you really want in a relationship. Finally, dating helps refine your communication skills because you’ll need to communicate with the men you’re seeing. Doing all of these things takes a lot of courage and self-awareness. It’s much easier to hang out with your friends, go to the gym, or work extra hours, but those things won’t help you find the love of your life. Dating will. To […]