right guy

April 3, 2019

Is Your Right Guy Out There?

How romantic is it to believe that the perfect guy for you is out there and that when the time is right, you’ll meet him? All the chick flicks tell us that this how it is, or at least, how it should be. I believed that myth for almost a decade. I truly thought that if I waited, without doing much of anything else, the right guy would simply turn up and everything would be fantastic. For most of us, it just doesn’t work that way. It’s much more likely that believing those things will end up keeping you single for much longer than you would be if you were more proactive. After spending nearly a decade waiting, I spent another few years figuring out how to make my dream of love happen. That was much more effective. You don’t need to burn as much time on this as I […]