relationship

November 21, 2018

Dealing With Anxiety

Do you suffer from anxiety when waiting for a guy to reach out to you after a date? Unfortunately, this is part of the deal and we’ve all been there. After your first date, your mind fills with questions like, Did he like me? Is he going to call me? Will he want to see me again? When these questions fill your head, ask yourself what you’re making this mean about you. It’s totally understandable to hope he’ll call or text, but if it’s early on, you don’t even know him yet. Making his willingness to follow up (or not) mean anything about you does not serve you. It’s best not to take anything that happens in dating personally. For more advice on dealing with anxiety in dating, check out this video: Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Click here to apply for a complimentary discovery call […]
January 2, 2019

How to Find a Guy Who Will Step Up

Do you want to be in a long-term relationship? To be married, living together, or have children? If so, I highly suggest that you write about it in your profile. Be sure to talk about it in a friendly way, so that men who share your goals will want to reach out to you . Some examples are; “I can’t wait to meet the love of my life” or “I’m looking for my last first date”. It’s also important to talk to men on the phone before agreeing to meet them. Doing so will not only save you time in the long run, it will up-level the entire energy of the relationship. Think about it, you want the men you date to know that they can’t just hit you up on Tinder and you’ll show up at the bar that night. Be willing to set that standard for yourself and […]
April 3, 2019

Is Your Right Guy Out There?

How romantic is it to believe that the perfect guy for you is out there and that when the time is right, you’ll meet him? All the chick flicks tell us that this how it is, or at least, how it should be. I believed that myth for almost a decade. I truly thought that if I waited, without doing much of anything else, the right guy would simply turn up and everything would be fantastic. For most of us, it just doesn’t work that way. It’s much more likely that believing those things will end up keeping you single for much longer than you would be if you were more proactive. After spending nearly a decade waiting, I spent another few years figuring out how to make my dream of love happen. That was much more effective. You don’t need to burn as much time on this as I […]
May 1, 2019

Are You Special?

When I was single, I used to think that I was special, and not in a good way! I was absolutely certain that I was somehow incapable of ever having love in my life and that there was nothing I could do about it. Can you relate? Do you ever think that other people can have love and that they can figure it out but for some reason, it just may not be possible for you? If this describes you, take heart. I can assure you that it’s simply not true. After over a decade of being single, I finally found a wonderful man and you can too! It doesn’t have to take that long or be that hard. Finding love is not some mystical thing that visits you from the Gods. There are many things you can do to find love. Practical, do-able, figure-out-able things. To learn more, check […]
November 6, 2019

Are You Like The Guy Who Won’t Ask For Directions?

Have you ever been in a car with someone who’s lost and refuses to ask for directions? I have. I’ve even been that person. It seems easier just to keep driving sometimes. You’ll probably figure it out, right? But eventually you may need to ask for help to get back on track. Consider taking this approach when it comes to dating. If you’ve been at it for years and it’s not working out the way you’d like, why not ask for help? It beats doing the same things over and over again for a few more years or giving up altogether. Dating really doesn’t have to be that hard. There are solutions that can help you get back on track. So, pull over and get those directions today. You’ll be so glad you did. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? […]