relationship tips

July 26, 2018

Giving Your Best Self

Are you a giving person? I’m not asking what you’re willing to give to others materially or financially. I’m talking about whether or not you’re the type of person who shows up and gives your best self to the world. Do you show up on dates from a place of giving? From a place of genuinely wanting to connect with another human being as opposed to looking to receive something from him? Waiting for someone to give you what you want is an entirely different energy and will produce a very different result. You’ve likely experienced this yourself in the dating world and it doesn’t feel good. Holding back a bit so that he can take the lead is fine, but once he does, be open and put yourself out there. Don’t play games to see if he really cares about you before you give him one little crumb of your attention. If you sit back and wait for him […]
July 26, 2018

Are You Hoping He’ll Change?

Are you trying to change the man you’re with? I’ve done it and you probably have too. You may have been on the other side of this as well, feeling like your man was trying to change you. If so, you know it doesn’t feel good. Here’s the deal; if you’re with someone you want to change, you either need to love and accept him as he is or move on to someone else whom you can accept. Nobody wants to be presented with a huge list of things they need to fix or change about themselves or to be treated as a “work in progress”. Everyone wants to be loved as they are. You are no exception; neither am I. It’s not fair to constantly fuss at a man to change, even if it’s “for his own good”. He doesn’t want to change and neither do you. Please love him […]
July 31, 2018

Understanding What You Want

When it comes to relationships, do you know what you’re looking for? This is a question I often ask the women I work with and I usually get the same vague responses back; “I just want to meet someone nice”… “I’ll know him when I see him”… “I’ll have that certain feeling”, etc. The truth is, if you want to have a great relationship, you need to be proactive. You need to know what you want. If you’ve been following your gut, your instinct, hormones, or having butterflies all this time, it probably hasn’t been working for you. It’s time for you to consider a different approach. If you haven’t thought about what you want in a relationship, I highly suggest you grab a pen and paper and write it down. Ask yourself: What qualities do I want in a man? How do I want him to make me feel? What kind […]
September 5, 2018

The Most Important Quality to Look for in a Man

When you’re looking for a man to date, what qualities turn your head? An impressive job title? The right zip code? If you’re seeking a long-term relationship there’s one quality you’d do well to insist on. If he doesn’t have it, nothing else will matter. Does he have to be funny or crazy handsome? No. What he needs to have is… CHARACTER. Character is the most important quality to consider when you’re looking for a man. Unfortunately, we don’t stay young and gorgeous forever and money can come and go. This quality will outlast everything else. If you’ve ever worked with me, you know that I help you decide on 5 must have qualities to seek in the men you date and they need to be character-based. Don’t go after that huge list of superficial qualities. Go for a man you can count on who keeps his word and you’ll […]
September 12, 2018

Are You Waiting to Meet the Right Person?

Do you feel like you’re not meeting the right guys? Have you found yourself saying, “I just want to meet the right person” or asking your friends to introduce you to someone? Here’s the deal; it’s not about the men you’re meeting or not meeting. Unless you live in a very remote area or never leave your house, you’re walking past people everyday. Men are everywhere! You could easily be walking past dozens of wonderful men and not even know it because you’re in a mindset of waiting to meet the “right person”. You’re not going to meet the man of your dreams unless you shift something. This is true because it’s never about the people you’re meeting, it’s about how you’re showing up in the world. If you’d like to learn more about why you haven’t met the right person yet and what you can do about it, check […]