plenty of fish

January 30, 2019

Break the Pattern of Being Unavailable

Are you keeping yourself single by choosing to date an unavailable man? It’s very common to believe it’s the man who’s unavailable when really, its you! I know it seems wrong, like blaming the victim, but think about it this way: if you’re REALLY available for a relationship, why on earth would you consider dating an unavailable man ever? You wouldn’t! You’d be out of there the minute you knew he was unavailable, right? Yet I see so many women put up with unavailable men for months or even years and then blame the guy. I actually used to do this a lot, so no judgement here, just realize that it does happen and it’s up to you to change it. If you’re wondering if this applies to you, take a look at these 5 steps that make up the pattern: Step 1: You find a guy who: Won’t meet […]
March 13, 2019

Real Connections Are Being Made Online

Are you discouraged with the results you’ve been getting from online dating or hesitant to post a profile in the first place? Have you heard and believed all the horror stories? So many people ask me if online dating results in real, honest-to-goodness connections and the answer is, ABSOLUTELY! In fact, about 1/3 of new marriages today began with an online introduction and that number is increasing. I’ve also read research suggesting that relationships that begin online tend to be stronger and last longer than others. If you’re not happy with your results from online dating, you may just be doing it wrong. It’s OK. I did it wrong for many years myself, so you’re definitely not alone. The good news is that it’s an easy problem to fix. Dating is simply a skill that can be learned. I can teach you how to do it, or you can learn […]