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January 30, 2019

Break the Pattern of Being Unavailable

Are you keeping yourself single by choosing to date an unavailable man? It’s very common to believe it’s the man who’s unavailable when really, its you! I know it seems wrong, like blaming the victim, but think about it this way: if you’re REALLY available for a relationship, why on earth would you consider dating an unavailable man ever? You wouldn’t! You’d be out of there the minute you knew he was unavailable, right? Yet I see so many women put up with unavailable men for months or even years and then blame the guy. I actually used to do this a lot, so no judgement here, just realize that it does happen and it’s up to you to change it. If you’re wondering if this applies to you, take a look at these 5 steps that make up the pattern: Step 1: You find a guy who: Won’t meet […]