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March 27, 2019

Stop Texting and Meet Him Already

Do you often match with a new guy online or an app and then text each other for weeks on end? If so, you need to stop texting and meet him already! If you’re serious about getting into a real relationship, it pays to use your time and emotional energy wisely. You simply can’t afford to invest weeks (or longer) in back and forth texting with men you’re not meeting. Instead, learn how to turn the text messages into phone conversations. Once you’ve spoken on the phone once or twice, you can schedule a time to meet in person in the reasonably near future. I promise that using this one tip will help you avoid so many undesirable situations, such as ending up with guys who are; married, dating tons of other women, catfishing, too busy with their jobs, kids, travel, video games, whatever, to have a real relationship with […]
April 3, 2019

Is Your Right Guy Out There?

How romantic is it to believe that the perfect guy for you is out there and that when the time is right, you’ll meet him? All the chick flicks tell us that this how it is, or at least, how it should be. I believed that myth for almost a decade. I truly thought that if I waited, without doing much of anything else, the right guy would simply turn up and everything would be fantastic. For most of us, it just doesn’t work that way. It’s much more likely that believing those things will end up keeping you single for much longer than you would be if you were more proactive. After spending nearly a decade waiting, I spent another few years figuring out how to make my dream of love happen. That was much more effective. You don’t need to burn as much time on this as I […]
April 10, 2019

Make Finding Love a Reality

“I’m too old.” “It’s too late.” “I’m not skinny enough.” Have you been thinking any of these things? If so, I want you to know that they’re not true.  Please don’t believe any of them for one second. I understand that it can be a struggle at times, especially if you don’t have the support of others. It’s easy to listen to the negative chatter in your head telling you all the reasons why you haven’t been able to find love. You need to find a way to remind yourself that your thoughts are not the truth. They are just thoughts. It will help so much to find a support system. Surround yourself with people who want the best for you and believe in you but most importantly, please believe in yourself and in your dreams. If you dream of finding love, I want you to know that it’s possible […]
April 24, 2019

When He Upsets You

We all get upset with our significant other from time to time. It’s impossible to go through life with someone and be on the same page about absolutely everything, but it’s still tough when these things come up. So, what should you do about it? First, think about what he’s done. Are you taking something personally that isn’t about you? You’re absolutely entitled to have your feelings, but what are you making his behavior mean to you? Can you separate the action he took from your feelings about it? For example, if he was late and you feel that it was disrespectful to you, stop and think about what you’re making this event mean. Does it mean that he’s disrespectful? Does it mean that he doesn’t care about you? Does it have to mean that? Could it mean something else? Could it not mean anything? If he does something that […]
May 8, 2019

Do You Think You’re Unlucky in Love?

Do you look at others who are happily in love and think that they just got lucky? Do you think this whole finding love thing is way too much work and it will just happen if it’s meant to be? If this is you, I totally get it! I used to think this way all the time. I’d ask myself what it would take to finally get some luck! Now I know the answer. What it takes to get some luck is showing up for yourself and making your dreams happen. It’s as simple as that. Don’t let those thoughts of being “unlucky” flood your mind. Here are some helpful tips that will change your luck for good: Date with purpose instead of just winging it and seeing what happens. Put yourself out there. Create a profile and use your best pictures on dating sites and apps. Go to social […]