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September 21, 2016

Do you really want him back?

You get a text and it’s from HIM! The guy who dumped you, ghosted, or that you haven’t quite gotten over yet. You know the one. What to do now? Your ideal response depends on the nature of the correspondence, the status of the previous relationship and the current circumstances. First things first. What kind of text was it? Did he just say “hey”, “hi”, or “what’s up”? Is it 2 AM? Is it an indecent picture? If any of these apply, you know what to do. If it was something more heartfelt, such as an apology or an invitation to get together and talk, you may want to consider responding, unless this is a pattern with him. Sometimes, a man will need some space to evaluate the possibility of taking a relationship to the next level or to get a grip on his feelings for you. Ideally, he won’t […]
October 17, 2018

Has Dating Made You Bitter?

Dating, and life in general, can deal some harsh blows. Pretty much everyone over the age of 20 has a right to be bitter! I know the kinds of things that can happen when you’re out there dating and it can be so heartbreaking! I’ve dealt with painful breakups, being ghosted, and long spells of first dates (and no dates). I’ve heard it all AND gone through much of it firsthand. Here’s the thing; being jaded and snarky doesn’t serve you and it’s definitely not any fun. Honestly, when’s the last time you saw a bitter person and thought, “Wow, I can’t wait to hang out with them.” Probably never. If you’d like to leave bitterness behind, take a look at the things that have caused you so much pain and ask yourself what belief is at the root of it. Do you believe that men only want one thing? […]
November 14, 2018

Start Dating Outside Your Type

Did you just go through another breakup with a guy who was your type? Or met somebody amazing (and your type), and then he ghosted? Or, have you been single for longer than you like because you never get asked out (by guys who are your type)? Let’s face it, dating your type of guy isn’t getting you the results you want. Why not consider doing something different? It’s so easy to fall into the pattern of dating the same kinds of men over and over, but if it’s not getting you anywhere then it’s time you consider dating outside your type – especially if you’re serious about finding love. For more great reasons why you should consider dating guys who aren’t your type, watch this video: Please accept YouTube cookies to play this video. By accepting you will be accessing content from YouTube, a service provided by an external third […]