find love

November 16, 2014

Great Men Commit

I was poking around on Pinterest recently and saw a very inspiring article about a Vietnam veteran who had recently passed away. He had flown his helicopter into enemy territory repeatedly against orders to rescue critically wounded soldiers. Many young servicemen who would have died on the field of battle that day got to go home to their families because of him. That man was committed. The pages of history, and modern websites as it turns out, are filled with inspiring stories of great men. Truly, they are everywhere if you look. There are the famous ones, like Martin Luther King, Abraham Lincoln, and The Dalai Lama. There are the every-day ones, like my grandfather who went to work every day, paid his bills and loved his family. There are great men everywhere that you have never heard of and have never met, from world leaders to ambulance drivers. What […]
January 14, 2015

Upgrade your look – upgrade your life!

Are you pumped up and excited about beginning a new year? Are you motivated and ready to upgrade your life? Fantastic! Last time, I wrote about the importance of cultivating a growth mindset and being determined. Now I will cover specific things you can do to begin moving toward your goals. I’ll cover outer work in this newsletter and inner work in the next one. It’s time to step up to the plate and back that motivation up with consistent actions in order to get results. So let’s start with the outside work. Your outer appearance is the first thing everyone sees. The outside counts, a lot! It is your very own advertisement to other members of the human race, your first chance to show people who you are. If you would like to attract more dates, it helps to look good. If you know that your appearance could use […]
January 19, 2015

How to reboot your love life

I hope you’re enjoying the new year so far and looking and feeling your best. A new look can do wonders for your outlook on life, but it’s important not to stop there. Inner work is just as important, but people are tempted to skip it because it’s less tangible and they aren’t sure what to do or where to begin. It’s much easier to go get your nails done than it is to upgrade your unconscious beliefs so that you can have a better love life. If you have some things going on unconsciously that are holding you back, those gorgeous nails will only get you so far. So, why am I talking about the unconscious? Well, think about the things that you want in life that you don’t have yet. You say you want them, but somehow, they are not part of your reality yet. Why not? You […]
May 10, 2015

Moms need love too

Happy Mother’s Day!   I’d like to say thank you to moms everywhere for all you do. I’ve had many jobs in my life, and none of them was tougher than being a single mother to four children. If you’re a single mom who wants to find someone special, I’ve been in your shoes and today’s post is especially for you and packed with tons of love. Just because you’re a single mom doesn’t mean that you can’t have love. I’m not going to lie and tell you that it will be easy. You know that being a mom is not easy. It is possible for you to have love though, and I don’t want you to wait until after your kids are grown to pursue it. Being a mom is an enormous responsibility and usually comes with a heavy dose of guilt if we ever dare to put ourselves […]
August 31, 2015

Where is your soul mate?

It’s so romantic to believe that you have a soul mate, that there is an amazing person out there who is perfect for you and that all you need to do is meet him. Where is he though? If you’re past a certain age, you may have despaired whether you would ever actually meet this person. You may have tried scouring the internet, the bars or singles events searching for him. You may hope that you will meet him naturally, at the perfect time. This sounds wonderfully romantic, and Hollywood would have us believe that this is the way it’s supposed to be. Is that really true? How many people does this actually happen to? If you hold out for a soul mate, you could be missing a lot of opportunities to be with someone real and have love now. The truth is, there are many people that you could be very […]