dating the wrong people

October 12, 2016

How to finally stop dating the wrong people

Do you always end up dating the wrong people? Did you just break up with another narcissist or player? Are you hanging in there with someone you hope will change? Have you decided to take a break from dating because it’s been so painful and the same things keep happening in all of your relationships? I want you to find someone who’s wonderful for you and to have the loving relationship you deserve. That means not spending one more minute where you are, so let’s begin. The first step is to take responsibility for where you are in your life right now. If you’re in a situation that makes you miserable, get out as soon as possible. Finally, learn how to make better choices so that you never wind up in a bad situation again. Then you can finally move on to something better. This first point may sting a […]
September 12, 2018

Are You Waiting to Meet the Right Person?

Do you feel like you’re not meeting the right guys? Have you found yourself saying, “I just want to meet the right person” or asking your friends to introduce you to someone? Here’s the deal; it’s not about the men you’re meeting or not meeting. Unless you live in a very remote area or never leave your house, you’re walking past people everyday. Men are everywhere! You could easily be walking past dozens of wonderful men and not even know it because you’re in a mindset of waiting to meet the “right person”. You’re not going to meet the man of your dreams unless you shift something. This is true because it’s never about the people you’re meeting, it’s about how you’re showing up in the world. If you’d like to learn more about why you haven’t met the right person yet and what you can do about it, check […]
October 17, 2018

Has Dating Made You Bitter?

Dating, and life in general, can deal some harsh blows. Pretty much everyone over the age of 20 has a right to be bitter! I know the kinds of things that can happen when you’re out there dating and it can be so heartbreaking! I’ve dealt with painful breakups, being ghosted, and long spells of first dates (and no dates). I’ve heard it all AND gone through much of it firsthand. Here’s the thing; being jaded and snarky doesn’t serve you and it’s definitely not any fun. Honestly, when’s the last time you saw a bitter person and thought, “Wow, I can’t wait to hang out with them.” Probably never. If you’d like to leave bitterness behind, take a look at the things that have caused you so much pain and ask yourself what belief is at the root of it. Do you believe that men only want one thing? […]
February 13, 2019

Is He What You Want?

If you’re in a relationship and having some doubts, I’d like to ask you a question that my coach used to ask me all the time; “Is he what you want or what you think you can have?” This is HUGE because if you’re anything like I was, you can just get so tired of dating that you settle and get a bit lost. I was in this situation a few years ago. I’d been single for years and then I met someone who wanted to stick around. I thought it was better than a constant string of first dates or month-long relationships, but I knew it wasn’t what I really wanted. I was always trying to decide if I should stay or go and I was really struggling because I didn’t want to get back out there and start all over again. Have you been there? My coach would […]