date tips

December 12, 2018

Does He Like You?

Are you interested in a guy but unsure how he feels about you? You think he likes you. He smiles at you, maybe even chats you up or texts you, but never seems to ask you out. Guys are encouraged to go for what they want, so if you have to question whether he wants to date you – he probably doesn’t. I know that may be tough to swallow but I really want you to take this to heart. A man will usually make his interest clear even if he’s shy. Men know when they like you, they don’t get confused about this. Please don’t tell yourself stories about how he’d surely ask you out if only he wasn’t going through a tough time, fresh out of a relationship, busy at work, etc. A man who isn’t asking you out just doesn’t want to. If you’re spending a lot […]
April 3, 2019

Is Your Right Guy Out There?

How romantic is it to believe that the perfect guy for you is out there and that when the time is right, you’ll meet him? All the chick flicks tell us that this how it is, or at least, how it should be. I believed that myth for almost a decade. I truly thought that if I waited, without doing much of anything else, the right guy would simply turn up and everything would be fantastic. For most of us, it just doesn’t work that way. It’s much more likely that believing those things will end up keeping you single for much longer than you would be if you were more proactive. After spending nearly a decade waiting, I spent another few years figuring out how to make my dream of love happen. That was much more effective. You don’t need to burn as much time on this as I […]
April 10, 2019

Make Finding Love a Reality

“I’m too old.” “It’s too late.” “I’m not skinny enough.” Have you been thinking any of these things? If so, I want you to know that they’re not true.  Please don’t believe any of them for one second. I understand that it can be a struggle at times, especially if you don’t have the support of others. It’s easy to listen to the negative chatter in your head telling you all the reasons why you haven’t been able to find love. You need to find a way to remind yourself that your thoughts are not the truth. They are just thoughts. It will help so much to find a support system. Surround yourself with people who want the best for you and believe in you but most importantly, please believe in yourself and in your dreams. If you dream of finding love, I want you to know that it’s possible […]
May 29, 2019

Dating Can Prepare You for a Relationship

Have you been single for an extended period of time? Want to know what can be beneficial to your personal growth and future relationships? Dating. Yes, dating can be one of the best tools for personal growth while you’re single. Why? Because it prepares you to be in a relationship by the very act of putting yourself out there and meeting new people. Dating also helps you to look into your own heart and to be honest with yourself and others about what you really want in a relationship. Finally, dating helps refine your communication skills because you’ll need to communicate with the men you’re seeing. Doing all of these things takes a lot of courage and self-awareness. It’s much easier to hang out with your friends, go to the gym, or work extra hours, but those things won’t help you find the love of your life. Dating will. To […]
October 2, 2019

You’re Not That Into You

Do the guys who really like you turn you off? Are you constantly finding things you don’t like about them? Picking them apart and going for the guys who are more standoffish instead? I used to do this all the time. I remember a really nice guy taking his jacket off on our first date and being turned off because it wasn’t lined! Seriously! I knew that I was being ridiculous, but I couldn’t stop myself. And that’s how I kept ending up with one emotionally unavailable man after another for years. The next time a guy is excited about you and it grosses you out, ask yourself why. Why can’t you take it in? Spend some time with yourself and listen long enough to hear the answer. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule […]