commitment

November 16, 2014

Great Men Commit

I was poking around on Pinterest recently and saw a very inspiring article about a Vietnam veteran who had recently passed away. He had flown his helicopter into enemy territory repeatedly against orders to rescue critically wounded soldiers. Many young servicemen who would have died on the field of battle that day got to go home to their families because of him. That man was committed. The pages of history, and modern websites as it turns out, are filled with inspiring stories of great men. Truly, they are everywhere if you look. There are the famous ones, like Martin Luther King, Abraham Lincoln, and The Dalai Lama. There are the every-day ones, like my grandfather who went to work every day, paid his bills and loved his family. There are great men everywhere that you have never heard of and have never met, from world leaders to ambulance drivers. What […]
October 31, 2018

The Importance of Common Interests

Do you know what a total GAME CHANGER is when you’re looking for the right guy? It’s sharing the same interests! I’m not referring to superficial things like cheering for the same team or loving the same foods. I’m talking big picture things, like sharing a desire for marriage, children, or other major lifestyle choices. If you know what you want in life, please have the courage to stand for yourself by sharing this information with the men you date early on. The last thing you want to do is to fall for a man and then try to convince him that he should want what you do. Waste. Of. Time. When you find a man who wants the same things you do, it makes your relationship so much easier. And easy is much more fun. Watch this video to learn more: Ready to stop leaving your love life to […]
January 2, 2019

How to Find a Guy Who Will Step Up

Do you want to be in a long-term relationship? To be married, living together, or have children? If so, I highly suggest that you write about it in your profile. Be sure to talk about it in a friendly way, so that men who share your goals will want to reach out to you . Some examples are; “I can’t wait to meet the love of my life” or “I’m looking for my last first date”. It’s also important to talk to men on the phone before agreeing to meet them. Doing so will not only save you time in the long run, it will up-level the entire energy of the relationship. Think about it, you want the men you date to know that they can’t just hit you up on Tinder and you’ll show up at the bar that night. Be willing to set that standard for yourself and […]