commitment

November 16, 2014

Great Men Commit

I was poking around on Pinterest recently and saw a very inspiring article about a Vietnam veteran who had recently passed away. He had flown his helicopter into enemy territory repeatedly against orders to rescue critically wounded soldiers. Many young servicemen who would have died on the field of battle that day got to go home to their families because of him. That man was committed. The pages of history, and modern websites as it turns out, are filled with inspiring stories of great men. Truly, they are everywhere if you look. There are the famous ones, like Martin Luther King, Abraham Lincoln, and The Dalai Lama. There are the every-day ones, like my grandfather who went to work every day, paid his bills and loved his family. There are great men everywhere that you have never heard of and have never met, from world leaders to ambulance drivers. What […]
October 31, 2018

The Importance of Common Interests

Do you know what a total GAME CHANGER is when you’re looking for the right guy? It’s sharing the same interests! I’m not referring to superficial things like cheering for the same team or loving the same foods. I’m talking big picture things, like sharing a desire for marriage, children, or other major lifestyle choices. If you know what you want in life, please have the courage to stand for yourself by sharing this information with the men you date early on. The last thing you want to do is to fall for a man and then try to convince him that he should want what you do. Waste. Of. Time. When you find a man who wants the same things you do, it makes your relationship so much easier. And easy is much more fun. Watch this video to learn more: Ready to stop leaving your love life to […]
January 2, 2019

How to Find a Guy Who Will Step Up

Do you want to be in a long-term relationship? To be married, living together, or have children? If so, I highly suggest that you write about it in your profile. Be sure to talk about it in a friendly way, so that men who share your goals will want to reach out to you . Some examples are; “I can’t wait to meet the love of my life” or “I’m looking for my last first date”. It’s also important to talk to men on the phone before agreeing to meet them. Doing so will not only save you time in the long run, it will up-level the entire energy of the relationship. Think about it, you want the men you date to know that they can’t just hit you up on Tinder and you’ll show up at the bar that night. Be willing to set that standard for yourself and […]
November 13, 2019

Be Open to Doing Things You Don’t Like

Do you hope to find someone who shares your love of dogs, Bordeaux, and jazz? Maybe you hope he’ll come to yoga class with you or be open to learning to meditate? I can relate. But this outlook is not helping your love life at all. I once had a client who would not date anyone outside of her chosen profession because she insisted that they were too boring. As far as I know, she’s still looking for someone. Please don’t do this if you’re interested in finding anyone in this lifetime. It’s time to broaden your horizons and be open to meeting different types of men. If you do, you’re much more likely to be successful and you may even end up with a few new hobbies. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule […]
November 27, 2019

Do You Want to Change Your Life Fast?

When I was a brand new coach, one of my friends asked me how I could help her find love. She wanted the answer right then, before dinner was over. She’s my friend and I wanted to help. But changing your entire life doesn’t happen in one conversation. One conversation is the beginning. Yes, a conversation can be life-changing, but it’s just a start. After the conversation, you need to think new thoughts, try new things, get new results, have more conversations. Then you do all that over and over again. And gradually, over time, you build the new life you want to create. You become the person who has the thing you want. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!