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July 26, 2018

Tips to Help You Find Love

Do you know what it really takes to find love? Many women think it’s up to fate, but there are steps you can take that will help you find love. Here are some mistakes that women make all the time: Only talking to your girlfriends at social events. You can’t expect to have a man approach you if you’re bringing your girlfriends along and only chatting with them. Being glued to your phone. You aren’t approachable if you’re constantly on your phone. Put your phone down, exercise your friendliness muscle, and smile at the people around you – this will definitely help you find love. Not putting yourself out there. With all the online services and dating apps we have literally at our fingertips, it’s easier than ever to create a profile and put yourself out there. Dating apps are a fantastic way to find love. (I found my wonderful husband on Tinder!) If you’re feeling discouraged about your chances […]
September 5, 2018

The Most Important Quality to Look for in a Man

When you’re looking for a man to date, what qualities turn your head? An impressive job title? The right zip code? If you’re seeking a long-term relationship there’s one quality you’d do well to insist on. If he doesn’t have it, nothing else will matter. Does he have to be funny or crazy handsome? No. What he needs to have is… CHARACTER. Character is the most important quality to consider when you’re looking for a man. Unfortunately, we don’t stay young and gorgeous forever and money can come and go. This quality will outlast everything else. If you’ve ever worked with me, you know that I help you decide on 5 must have qualities to seek in the men you date and they need to be character-based. Don’t go after that huge list of superficial qualities. Go for a man you can count on who keeps his word and you’ll […]
September 12, 2018

Are You Waiting to Meet the Right Person?

Do you feel like you’re not meeting the right guys? Have you found yourself saying, “I just want to meet the right person” or asking your friends to introduce you to someone? Here’s the deal; it’s not about the men you’re meeting or not meeting. Unless you live in a very remote area or never leave your house, you’re walking past people everyday. Men are everywhere! You could easily be walking past dozens of wonderful men and not even know it because you’re in a mindset of waiting to meet the “right person”. You’re not going to meet the man of your dreams unless you shift something. This is true because it’s never about the people you’re meeting, it’s about how you’re showing up in the world. If you’d like to learn more about why you haven’t met the right person yet and what you can do about it, check […]
September 19, 2018

The Reason You’re Single

Could you be wrong about the reason you’re single? If you’ve been on your own for a long time, you probably have a lot of ideas about why you’re single. I know I did! Perhaps you think that men are shallow or intimidated by a smart, successful woman like you. Maybe you’re convinced that your size, age, or kids are keeping you alone. Ideas like this can keep you from putting yourself out there and making an attempt to find love. I’d like to challenge you to test them out and see if they’re true. Kind of like a dating science experiment if you will. Look at other women around you. Not everyone who is happily paired up is a size 2 or a supermodel. Many happily married women are just as brilliant and successful as you are. Take some time to study what other women who are in love and […]
September 26, 2018

What’s Been Holding You Back from Finding Love

Do you feel that something’s been holding you back from finding love? I have SO been there. I know what it’s like to be single for years on end and feel incredibly frustrated at the apparent lack of good men. Consider that you have more influence on this situation than you think you do, and it starts in your very own mind. Here’s how: You LOVE being right. About everything. It’s OK, so do I. Just ask my husband how much I love to be right, he’ll tell you! That’s just how our brains are wired – we all love being right. But your desire to be right could be costing you a lot. It could be costing you the opportunity to have love in your life. When you have a belief, your brain works to find evidence to prove it’s true. In doing this, you will actually create the […]