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October 10, 2018

5 Habits That Are Keeping You Single

Do you know what’s keeping you single? There are 5 habits I see all the time that derail women’s love lives. I used to do a lot of these things when I was single, so I know all about them. They can be a bit sneaky, and you may think these things are just happening to you, but they can be patterns. If you’re feeling brave, ask your friends if they see you doing this stuff. You definitely want to ditch these ASAP so that you can stop sabotaging your chances at finding love. 1) Dating unavailable people We’re all so busy and it can be very easy to take weeks to get together for a first date. Once that actually happens, it takes forever to get around to the second. You settle for texts and never talk on the phone. You ask him to call but he continues to […]
October 17, 2018

Has Dating Made You Bitter?

Dating, and life in general, can deal some harsh blows. Pretty much everyone over the age of 20 has a right to be bitter! I know the kinds of things that can happen when you’re out there dating and it can be so heartbreaking! I’ve dealt with painful breakups, being ghosted, and long spells of first dates (and no dates). I’ve heard it all AND gone through much of it firsthand. Here’s the thing; being jaded and snarky doesn’t serve you and it’s definitely not any fun. Honestly, when’s the last time you saw a bitter person and thought, “Wow, I can’t wait to hang out with them.” Probably never. If you’d like to leave bitterness behind, take a look at the things that have caused you so much pain and ask yourself what belief is at the root of it. Do you believe that men only want one thing? […]
October 31, 2018

The Importance of Common Interests

Do you know what a total GAME CHANGER is when you’re looking for the right guy? It’s sharing the same interests! I’m not referring to superficial things like cheering for the same team or loving the same foods. I’m talking big picture things, like sharing a desire for marriage, children, or other major lifestyle choices. If you know what you want in life, please have the courage to stand for yourself by sharing this information with the men you date early on. The last thing you want to do is to fall for a man and then try to convince him that he should want what you do. Waste. Of. Time. When you find a man who wants the same things you do, it makes your relationship so much easier. And easy is much more fun. Watch this video to learn more: Ready to stop leaving your love life to […]
November 21, 2018

Dealing With Anxiety

Do you suffer from anxiety when waiting for a guy to reach out to you after a date? Unfortunately, this is part of the deal and we’ve all been there. After your first date, your mind fills with questions like, Did he like me? Is he going to call me? Will he want to see me again? When these questions fill your head, ask yourself what you’re making this mean about you. It’s totally understandable to hope he’ll call or text, but if it’s early on, you don’t even know him yet. Making his willingness to follow up (or not) mean anything about you does not serve you. It’s best not to take anything that happens in dating personally. For more advice on dealing with anxiety in dating, check out this video: Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Click here to apply for a complimentary discovery call […]
December 5, 2018

Do You Have Regrets?

When you think about your past, do you feel like you’ve lost something you can never get back? Or that there’s something you’ll never be able to fix? Whatever you’ve done or not done, whatever you’ve lost, you need to remember that nothing is permanent. You can choose to see any loss as a lesson that can benefit you in the future. Sometimes a loss creates an opportunity for something much better to enter your life. John Barrymore once said “A man is not too old until regrets take the place of dreams.” It’s completely up to you to choose to hold onto past regrets or to let them go and focus on your dreams. I urge you to spend zero time on regrets! Use your valuable time and brain power to focus on the life you want to create.  Until your regrets take the place of your dreams, you’re […]