being your best self

July 26, 2018

Giving Your Best Self

Are you a giving person? I’m not asking what you’re willing to give to others materially or financially. I’m talking about whether or not you’re the type of person who shows up and gives your best self to the world. Do you show up on dates from a place of giving? From a place of genuinely wanting to connect with another human being as opposed to looking to receive something from him? Waiting for someone to give you what you want is an entirely different energy and will produce a very different result. You’ve likely experienced this yourself in the dating world and it doesn’t feel good. Holding back a bit so that he can take the lead is fine, but once he does, be open and put yourself out there. Don’t play games to see if he really cares about you before you give him one little crumb of your attention. If you sit back and wait for him […]
February 27, 2019

Dating When You’re Older

Do you think that dating is for the young and feel totally left out of the mix? I get it! For a variety of reasons, many of us end up single long past when we expected to be married. Despite your best efforts, you may end up single a little later in life but it’s not the end of the world. So many women date successfully when they’re older and even find their soulmates. I found mine on Tinder just over 2 years ago! Is it going to take a bit more work than when you were younger? Quite frankly, yes, but it’s worth it. You need to be willing to put yourself out there with online dating and making the first move by reaching out to someone you’re interested in and introducing yourself. If you’ve gone through a divorce, please don’t bring that baggage into your next relationship. Get […]