advice on dating

February 6, 2019

Intimacy While Dating

I don’t need to tell you that men want sex. Physical intimacy is usually a part of a romantic relationship and we all like it that way! If you want more than that from a relationship, make sure you’ve discussed it before things go too far. Most men will want to make out first and ask questions later, if ever. Try to not find them wrong for feeling that way. This tendency is responsible for the existence of our species and it’s not likely to change anytime soon. Instead, learn to understand and work with it. You both have a right to feel as you do and want what you want. If you want a long term relationship, make sure you’re dealing with a man who shares that desire and discuss it openly. As you increase the physical closeness in your relationship, make sure that you’re also increasing the emotional […]
July 3, 2019

When You’re Not Attracted to The Guys Who Like You

Do you often find that the guys you like don’t want to date you but the guys you’re not attracted to won’t leave you alone? I’ve SO been there and it can be incredibly frustrating. This kind of dynamic can become a very insidious way of keeping yourself single for a long time. You may think that this is the way it always works out for you or that you’re unlucky in love, but I want you to pretend, just for a moment, that this is simply a habit that you can change. Because, it is. Grab a pen and and write about the last three guys you were attracted to who didn’t return your interest. Take your time and write down everything you remember about them. What did they have in common with each other? Next, do the same thing with the last three men who were attracted to […]