Do you often match with a new guy online or an app and then text each other for weeks on end? If so, you need to stop texting and meet him already!
If you’re serious about getting into a real relationship, it pays to use your time and emotional energy wisely.
You simply can’t afford to invest weeks (or longer) in back and forth texting with men you’re not meeting. Instead, learn how to turn the text messages into phone conversations.
Once you’ve spoken on the phone once or twice, you can schedule a time to meet in person in the reasonably near future.
I promise that using this one tip will help you avoid so many undesirable situations, such as ending up with guys who are; married, dating tons of other women, catfishing, too busy with their jobs, kids, travel, video games, whatever, to have a real relationship with you.
It’s also possible to become emotionally involved with someone you haven’t met and think that you’re in a relationship with him. When and if you ever meet, you may realize that there’s no connection or chemistry at all.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had clients or friends tell me that they’ve been texting someone they’re interested in for weeks or months. Sometimes they ask me how they can get into a relationship with these men. I tell them that’s the last thing they need to do!
So from now on, resolve to speak on the phone and meet your new matches early on and if he’s not willing to do so, simply move on.
You’re sure to find someone who’s capable of picking up a phone, dialing your number, and showing up for a date. That is the way real relationships start after all.
To learn more about how to do this, watch this video.
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