If you’re in a relationship and having some doubts, I’d like to ask you a question that my coach used to ask me all the time; “Is he what you want or what you think you can have?”
This is HUGE because if you’re anything like I was, you can just get so tired of dating that you settle and get a bit lost.
I was in this situation a few years ago. I’d been single for years and then I met someone who wanted to stick around. I thought it was better than a constant string of first dates or month-long relationships, but I knew it wasn’t what I really wanted.
I was always trying to decide if I should stay or go and I was really struggling because I didn’t want to get back out there and start all over again.
Have you been there?
My coach would ask me, “is he what you want or what you think you can have?” and I would answer, “Of course I want him” but in my heart I knew that I just didn’t want to go back out there and start that process all over again.
I sincerely hoped that the relationship would somehow morph into what I really wanted and magically fix itself if I just hung in there. Of course, it never did.
So, how would you answer this question? Is the man you’re with what you want or what you think you can have? If you’re even considering that question, please do yourself a favor and look deeper until you find your answer.
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