Do you want to be in a long-term relationship? To be married, living together, or have children?
If so, I highly suggest that you write about it in your profile. Be sure to talk about it in a friendly way, so that men who share your goals will want to reach out to you . Some examples are; “I can’t wait to meet the love of my life” or “I’m looking for my last first date”.
It’s also important to talk to men on the phone before agreeing to meet them. Doing so will not only save you time in the long run, it will up-level the entire energy of the relationship.
Think about it, you want the men you date to know that they can’t just hit you up on Tinder and you’ll show up at the bar that night.
Be willing to set that standard for yourself and you’ll start dating much better men immediately. This is not a way to play games, it’s simply a way to value yourself and teach men how to treat you.
The man you want to marry is looking for a quality woman, not a quick fling.
Once you’re on that first date, or the second at the latest, ask what kind of relationship he’s looking for. When I was single, I preferred to do this on the first date. Trust me, it gets easier with practice and guys who are looking for a serious relationship will be happy to tell you so.
Don’t make it about you, it’s too early for that, but you can establish what you’re both looking for. Doing this will save you so much time and heartache if you’re willing to stop seeing anyone who tells you he’s not looking for a relationship. If he says something to that effect, believe him!
It takes courage and discipline to do these things, but it will save you so much drama in your relationships. Trust me, you’ll never again waste a year with a guy who won’t step up or have another series of tearful conversations before you decide it’s time to go your separate ways.
To hear more about how to find a guy who will step up, watch this video:
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