We hear so much about how to practice safe sex from a physical perspective, but how often have you heard about how to have emotionally safe sex?
This is such an important topic and is largely ignored.
It seems to me that women have been fed the idea that in order to be liberated we should date like men, act like men, and be very cavalier about our sexual experiences. I say B.S.
I totally disagree with this and I think that kind of behavior is actually harmful for most women.
If you’re a woman who’s able to date like a dude and it makes you happy, that’s amazing.
For the many other women (myself included) that have a hard time being casual about a physical relationship, it’s okay to take your time and get to know a man before you get naked with him.
It’s not only totally okay, it’s a responsible way to handle yourself, your body, and your heart.
Don’t let anyone tell you that refusing to have a casual fling means you’re not sophisticated. So many women aren’t built that way, for very good reasons biologically and socially.
Practicing good self care not just physically, but emotionally, is something you owe yourself. When you respect and cherish yourself in this way, men will do the same.
To learn more about how to have emotionally safe sex, check out this video:
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