Commit to yourself if you want someone to commit to you

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Commit to yourself if you want someone to commit to you

Are you ready to have a lasting, committed relationship? Do you want to meet someone who’s serious, not “just hanging out” or “seeing how it goes”? Good! I’m a big believer in really going for what you want in life. I love to see people who are up to something, people who have dreams and are reaching for them. Just hanging out can be fun every once in a while, but it’s not particularly inspiring.

If you really want to be in a committed relationship, you need to be able to make commitments. I’d like to invite you to commit to yourself first. Committing to yourself increases your chances of success, shows the universe you’re serious and earns you the respect of the men you date.

You’re far more likely to succeed at something you’ve committed to. If you’ve firmly planted your stake in the ground for a cherished dream, you’ll back it up with action. You’ll be far more tenacious than you would be if you were wishy washy about it.

Once you’ve committed to your goal, you’ll have an integrity issue if you don’t stick with it. You’ll feel “off” inside if you take actions that don’t align with your dream and you’ll know that you’re off course. Even if you do have a few minor detours, the promise you made to yourself will help you get back on track.

Committing to your goal shows the universe that you’re serious about achieving it. I’ve heard story after story about people who joined a dating site and ended up marrying someone who had lived in their apartment building for 15 years or met their future spouse at a party that very weekend.

I bet you can think of an example in your own life where you’ve decided that you were going to do something and began taking action and then things just started lining up for you. It still took some work, but you got a few breaks.

Making a commitment to having the kind of relationship you want is an act of self-love. Men respect women who love themselves. Having standards is sexy.

No man wants to date a woman who lets him run over her, at least not for very long. Having a definite idea of what kind of relationship you want to have puts you in a different category in his mind. He will admire your spirit, even if it’s not a match.

If you’re looking for a commitment, commit to yourself today. Don’t wait for life to do for you what you are unwilling to do for yourself.

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