Dating

May 4, 2015

How to overcome rejection

I spent last weekend at The Ultimate Women’s Expo in Phoenix and it was fantastic! It was my first expo and I learned so much. You have to really put yourself out there and face some rejection if you want to be a love coach. You can’t hide at home behind your computer all the time and expect to touch people’s lives. I flew in from Chicago to spend two days talking to women (and a few men) about love. I rented a booth, gave a 25-minute talk and poured on the love. Most of those wonderful people loved me right back, but some didn’t. They walked right past and ignored me, even when I said hi. That’s ok though. I knew I had the best product in the room. Love! I was there to fulfill my mission and I did. How about you? Do you get discouraged and give […]
May 10, 2015

Moms need love too

Happy Mother’s Day!   I’d like to say thank you to moms everywhere for all you do. I’ve had many jobs in my life, and none of them was tougher than being a single mother to four children. If you’re a single mom who wants to find someone special, I’ve been in your shoes and today’s post is especially for you and packed with tons of love. Just because you’re a single mom doesn’t mean that you can’t have love. I’m not going to lie and tell you that it will be easy. You know that being a mom is not easy. It is possible for you to have love though, and I don’t want you to wait until after your kids are grown to pursue it. Being a mom is an enormous responsibility and usually comes with a heavy dose of guilt if we ever dare to put ourselves […]
June 15, 2015

Your online dating profile matters

A lot of my clients complain that the men who respond to them online are just random guys looking for a hookup. Nothing special, not trying to court them or even bothering to write a decent email. When I ask what kind of profile they have posted they usually tell me it’s basic, generic, breezy. That can be a problem if you’re looking for quality. When you post an online dating profile that attempts to appeal to everyone and don’t make it unique, you blend in with everyone else on the site. That’s not what you want. So many people are online these days and you need to stand out if you want to get quality dates. Your profile and pictures are all you have going for you until you actually meet, so you need to make the most of them. Be serious about this and you’ll get better results. […]
June 30, 2015

Should you consider a long-distance relationship?

Dating has changed a lot in the last few years. It was complicated enough back in the day, but now with Facebook, texting, and online dating there’s a lot more to navigate. It is now possible, and not all that uncommon, to date someone in another part of the country or even another part of the world. It’s great to be open to possibilities, but before you jump into a long-distance relationship, consider these questions. What do I want? Do you want to get married and have children? Do you want to have someone present in your life on a daily basis? What kind of lifestyle do you want to have? Knowing the answers to these questions and acting accordingly will save you a ton of pain. When you know what you want, you can choose to date people who are able meet your needs. Most men want to make […]
July 19, 2015

When should you sleep with him?

You’re on a great date, the chemistry is off the charts and you’re excited. Where has this amazing man been all your life? You cannot wait to kiss him, and you can definitely imagine doing much more than that! It’s so wonderful when you really connect with someone and you can see yourself with him, especially if it’s been awhile since you’ve met someone special. You can’t wait to hop into bed, have him in your life, and enjoy your happily ever after. If your goal is a long term relationship, how long should you wait before you sleep with him? The answer is, it depends. There are things you need to find out before you throw caution to the wind and bed down with a new man. Specifically, you’ll benefit most from knowing if he shares your relationship goals, is really your boyfriend and there is an established timeline […]