April 1, 2020

Use This Time to Press Pause

Most of us have a bit more alone time at the moment. We’re not covering up our loneliness with endless activities, social engagements, and errands. Maybe you’re realizing that you want love in your life now more than ever. I’m here to help you get it. I recommend that you start by using this time to reflect on what’s been happening in your dating life. What patterns tend to repeat for you? Do you date the same types of guys over and over again? Is it hard for you to find anyone you actually want to date? Do your relationships crash and burn after a few intense weeks? What choices have you made that have contributed to these outcomes? What kind of relationship are you looking for at this time in your life and why? The answers to these questions will help you find men who actually want what you […]
March 25, 2020

You Don’t Have to Give Up On Dating

Think you have to give up your search for love now that we’re in the middle of a global pandemic? You don’t! Now is a better time than ever to foster real, lasting connections instead of rushing out to meet the people you match with. You have a unique opportunity to slow things down and really get to know someone before getting physically involved. This situation is definitely causing us to hit pause on the hookup culture that has left so many women frustrated and jaded. We have the ability to date without meeting face to face. So get creative and use this time and technology to your advantage. It’s totally possible to emerge from this crisis having developed a real long term relationship. I’m here to help and I’ll be doing a series of blogs on exactly what to do to get the relationship you want in the coming […]
March 18, 2020

Do You Want Someone to Tell You What to do?

I used to wish that someone would just tell me what to do in order to find a great guy. I read “The Rules” so many times it fell apart! I wanted a step-by-step foolproof guide, like a recipe that I couldn’t possibly mess up. Because I was great at messing up. How about you? The problem with being told what to do is that there’s too much to cover. There’s so much more to dating effectively than knowing how to write a profile or respond to a text. You have to literally become the person who has what she wants. It helps so much to have a mentor who can show you how to do this. That’s what a coach is and that’s how I help my clients. So you’ll never need anyone to tell you what to do again. Because you will know how to be, how to […]
March 11, 2020

Do You Want to Set a Date?

How long have you been single? Months? Years? Decades? I was single for well over a decade, stumbling around trying things. Sometimes not trying things and just wishing and hoping. I thought it would just happen if I hung in there. Sometimes I thought it wasn’t meant to be. If this sounds like you, I’d like to encourage you to set a date. Think about how much longer you’re willing to try to do this on your own before you get some support. Because support helps so much more than waiting, wishing and hoping. So, get out your calendar right now and circle the date by which you will reach out for help if you haven’t figured this out yet. When that date comes, email me. Or someone else. Just do it. Because your life is going by and this is important to you or you wouldn’t keep reading this […]
March 4, 2020

How to Stop Accepting Crumbs

If I could write a recipe for absolute romantic misery, it would be this: Crumbs. From an unavailable man who will never commit to you. He pays lip service to it, maybe. Or maybe he was completely upfront about his unavailability from the start and you didn’t want to hear it. Either way, it’s not changing. Giving him more time won’t help. You’re not important enough to him to commit to. You’re also not important enough to yourself. Because if you had your own back you would never tolerate a situation like this. So don’t do it anymore. Let go of the crumbs today and take your place at the banquet table of love. I’ll see you there. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!