I used to think that finding love just wasn’t in the cards for me. I was single for well over a decade and had a knack for chasing guys who didn’t want me, settling for crumbs, and never being interested in the men who were interested in me. I was a total dating disaster. For a time, I actually thought I was cursed by some higher being who enjoyed watching me suffer. But the truth is, I was in charge of the whole thing. I just didn’t realize it. How about you? Do you think that someone else is in charge of your love life or that happiness in love is not in the cards for you? I can assure you that love is possible for you, but you must be willing to do things differently than you’re doing them now in order to have it. I believe that the […]
Do you think dating is a huge drag? I used to. I’d slog through one “duty date” after another and wonder why nothing good was happening. Seriously! I needed to change my attitude. (Those poor guys) Luckily, I changed my ways by the time I met The Hubbs or he’d be another 1st date gone wrong! You’re more fun to be around when you’re having fun, so learn to bring the fun to dating. Try making a list of fun places you’d like to go or things you’d like to do. Get a makeover, some new clothes or get your hair done. Even a new pair of shoes puts a little spring in my step. Learn to be curious about people and genuinely interested in them and their lives. Cultivate this interest. Finally, remember that love is something your ARE, not something you seek out in the world. How can […]
New Year’s Day is finally here! We’re in a brand spanking new decade!! If you want to make this the year you find the love of your life, what will you do differently? Will you go on Tinder, Match, or OK Cupid? Will you learn how to write an amazing profile? Will you stop dating the guys who are your “type” but treat you poorly? Waiting, wishing and hoping isn’t going to cut it. Neither is waiting on the Universe, God or Amazon to deliver your dreams to you. It’s time to get to work and help the fates along a bit. It really can be done and it doesn’t have to be that hard. But you really must be willing to take some action. I can help. Dating is a skill that can be learned and when you do it effectively, you’ll get much better results. Just like anything […]
Happy Christmas! I hope you have a lovely holiday and an amazing New Year! If 2019 wasn’t the best year for your love life, I promise it can turn around so much faster than you think. 3 years ago, right before Christmas, I was dumped. Via text. It was so painful. I remember taking his Christmas present back to Macy’s and trying not to cry at the register. Less than a month later I was on my first date with the man who became my husband. Finding the love of your life can happen in an instant. It really doesn’t have to take that long or be that hard. I can help. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!
What do you want most in life? To find a partner to share your life with? Work success? A new home? Yes, I write about finding love, but honestly, this will work for any goal if practiced regularly. The secret to having what you want is to become the person who has it. To live into it, not to go out and get it. (Because if you knew how to do that, you would have by now) So, start with your imagination. What does the person who has the thing you want do every day? What does she think about? What does she eat? What does she wear? Get out of your own skin and into hers. Do this over and over again, every day if possible. If you do, you’ll have new ideas, new ways of being, new possibilities. Little by little, you will become a new person who […]