Your time is valuable. You aren’t out there dating because you have nothing better to do. You’re looking for the man of your dreams and I’m here to help. The fastest way to separate the wheat from the chaff out there in the dating world is to have standards. Prioritize the qualities that make a guy relationship material and then only date men who possess those qualities. This is not complicated. But it does require a certain single-mindedness. If guys tend to end up wasting your time, this is probably an issue. Start prioritizing the qualities that make him relationship material. Write a profile that attracts this kind of man. Solve for this, not his looks, income, or how funny he is. Then stop seeing anyone who doesn’t make the cut immediately. Get rid of the flakes, the players, and the guys who won’t call you or drive to […]
It drives me absolutely bananas when people say they really want to find love, but they’re waiting on God or the Universe to deliver it. I seriously want to start throwing things when I hear this. I think it may have something to do with the fact that I myself spent many years waiting on God in my single days. Spoiler alert: I went about 5 years without a date when I employed this strategy. This happens so often with women who hope to find love. You wouldn’t do this with anything practical, like obtaining groceries or cleaning the house. Kids: “What’s for dinner?” Mom: “We’re waiting on The Universe…” Seriously, if you really want something, you owe it to yourself to figure out how to get it. It is possible to learn how to date and find love. There are resources available to help you do this. Learning […]
I used to think that once I improved myself enough, I’d somehow graduate to the level of relationship-readiness required to be able to have a boyfriend. This is hilarious now that I look back, but that’s really how I felt. I was constantly trying to iron out all my flaws and not mess things up with whomever I was dating, or wanting to date. But when you look around, you’ll see that there are plenty of people who are imperfect, even dysfunctional, who have partners. So give yourself a break. There’s nothing to fix or attain. Relationships and people are not so fragile that one wrong move will send everything straight down the tubes. There is so much room for error with these things. If your search for a partner is taking longer than you’d like, it’s not because you have some kind of fatal flaw. Most likely, it’s […]
How many self-help books have you read this year? How many people have you asked for advice? How many random dating tips have you tried so far? It’s so easy to get stuck on the dating advice merry-go-round and miss what’s really keeping you single. Because you just can’t see it. If you knew what it was and what to do about it, you’d just do it. In order to make the right changes, you need to get some perspective. Perspective from someone who can tell you the truth. This is why coaching is so effective. You won’t need to spend years on trial and error. Or the discouragement that comes with it. If you want to change your life fast, get some outside perspective. It’ll change everything. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line […]
I’m a very practical person. But I’m also a dreamer. Having dreams and achieving them is one of the most fulfilling things we can do as humans. Finding true love is a very big dream. And a very achievable one. People do it every single day. Women just like you. No matter what they look like, how much they earn (or don’t), how much they weigh or how educated they are. You can too. And I can help. Let’s give your dreams a fighting chance. To learn more, check out this video! Ready to stop leaving your love life to chance? Drop me a line to schedule a complimentary discovery call with me!