Are you trying to change the man you’re with? I’ve done it and you probably have too.
You may have been on the other side of this as well, feeling like your man was trying to change you. If so, you know it doesn’t feel good.
Here’s the deal; if you’re with someone you want to change, you either need to love and accept him as he is or move on to someone else whom you can accept.
Nobody wants to be presented with a huge list of things they need to fix or change about themselves or to be treated as a “work in progress”.
Everyone wants to be loved as they are. You are no exception; neither am I. It’s not fair to constantly fuss at a man to change, even if it’s “for his own good”. He doesn’t want to change and neither do you.
Please love him as he is or move on.
If there are changes you want to make in your own life, do it for you, because you want to show up as your best self. Do what it is that you need to do for yourself and respect your man enough to do the same for himself if and when he wishes to.
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