Finding love is possible for you
It is more than just possible, it is certain if you will do what it takes to create it. The problem is that most of us don’t believe that we should have to create it, it should just show up. I’m going to challenge that belief.
Seriously, why should it just show up? What else worth having has ever just landed on your doorstep with no effort whatsoever and taken zero effort to maintain? Not your education, career, financial security, or excellent health and fitness. You worked for those things. You figured out what you needed to do in order to get the results you wanted. You can do that with love too. If you decide exactly what you want, believe that you can have it and commit to achieving your desired outcome, you will be successful.
What do you really want? If Cupid himself or your own personal Fairy Godmother told you that you could have whatever you wanted, what would you ask for? Write it down. What, exactly, is your goal? Do you want to meet a lot of new people, go on a lot of dates, find The One, get married and build a life with him or her? Be specific. This is your life and this is for you. Unabashedly want whatever it is that you want. You are here on this planet to attain it. Go for it.
Do you believe that finding love is possible for you? Everything in the world that has ever been created started out as an idea, every building, company, and material object right down to the clothes you are wearing. This is great news because it means that you get to decide what you will create. No one can keep the things you want from you, not your boss, your ex, your parents, children or relatives, only you.
You get to choose what you will believe, the thoughts and ideas you will focus on. You can also work with your mind on a subconscious level in order to change the beliefs that are holding you back. It is much easier to achieve something when you believe that it is possible. It is also easier when you surround yourself with people who will believe with you and have attained the things you want to have. They can help you when you feel discouraged.
Once you decide and believe, you need to commit.
Make a commitment to yourself today to create the life you want to have, to create the loving relationship that you have been dreaming of. Do not even think of backing down or giving up. It is possible and you can have it, you will insist upon it and not settle for anything less.
Now is the time to put your stake in the ground and make a stand for what you want in life. You don’t have to settle for nights on the couch with the remote and wine or ice cream, or booty calls with the bad boys who never want what you do. If you want more, then know that you can have it and commit to achieving it. Commit to making the investment in yourself, to doing whatever it takes to make it happen. You can and will achieve the life you dream of if you follow these steps and don’t give up.
Chances are that you’ve hit a few bumps on the way to finding love or you would have done it by now. We all need some support from time to time. This is where coaching can help. I can help you focus on your goal, support your belief in your dreams and help you find your way to making them come true.
Waiting for something to happen has not worked yet. Everything else in your life has been created by you because you reached for it, worked for it, found a way. Elite athletes and business people work with coaches because they know it works. If you are ready to reach for the life you want, I’ve got your back. The time has come for you to create the life you’ve been dreaming of. Let’s begin!
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